i have a guy i met on the net and he always says he loves me and i think he's really screwed up in the head and he always i'm hot and we have never seen each other. he lives in new york and in 9 th grade. well he is . but, i'm in 10th grade. i think he is crazy because he smokes before he talks to he so plz tell me what to do.
2006-12-16 10:10:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girl, this guy is so lying, never trust the internet for dates.
2006-12-16 10:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Matty 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No one CAN tell you what to do. Ultimately you must make your own choices.
This guy cannot be in love with you.
He may be fantasising, rather than lying, but it comes to the same thing from your perspective.
All he knows about you is what you have said on the internet and the phone. He does not know the REAL YOU. Asx far as he knows you may be a sixty year old man pretending to be a 10th grade female (I take it that you are NOT!!) so all he has is his own image.
Where you go from here is up to you, but it seems like adead end. You do not say where you live...presumably nowhere near New York or you would have arranged to meet. If ever you DO,make it somewhere public the first time and, ideally, do not go alone
2006-12-16 20:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what to do. I think you also know that the chance of this guy being in 9th grade is about the same chance as me being the Headless Horseman. Get out and spend time with real people not the people that others make themselves out to be on the net.
Whenever your not sure what to do think of it this way. Think of the person you respect most in the whole wide world. Now think of yourself telling them what you have just written here. If you feel kind of weird just thinking about having that conversation then you need to make a better choice of how you spend your time. I wonder how many other people he talks to on the net at the same time as you and is he telling them he loves them too? You are worth so much more than you know. Get up off that chair and join the real world! It's waiting for you!
2006-12-16 10:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by gtahvfaith 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Kid, with guys you have to trust your instincts, especially when you meet them on-line; at least trust it when your instincts say something is not right. Dating a really wrong guy can give you far more hell than you can imagine.
Anybody can say they love you and they may.
Choose what's right for you. Clearly, you feel things are wrong. You don't like his smoking, (which shows he is kind of dumb and I should know having watch my dad die from cancer.)
In this case, with every word you type, its obvious you feel its wrong with every word you type. Dont EVER feel obligated to date a guy.
Oh and hey, i love you too. Not to try and date you love you but to hope you take care and dont be afraid to be careful. You'll find nice guys if you dont rush and plenty of jerks if you rush.
Lastly, with on-line dating be very very careful. I mean at your age I'd say DON'T do it, please. You could be communicating with a mixed up grade 9 or some registered sex offender. Even for somebody over 18, they need to be careful. Do for yourself and for you parents.
2006-12-16 10:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by rostov 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Internet dating is a good and a bad thng I met my ex on the internet and he took me for a fool, but i also met my new man on the internet and i wouldnt be without him. I would think very carefully before believing anything this lad tells you, considering he has never met you but reckons your hot, it sounds like he needs help.
2006-12-19 10:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all its the internet - everyone loves everyone and everyone is hot. hes in 9th grade that makes him a boy not a man. as for love hes lying he doesnt even know you. maybe he thinks your a great person, but that love will disappear if he meets you and your not what he expected or if he goes into a chat room and sees someone named, imeasy come see me strip!
2006-12-16 10:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by kd baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can he love you if he doesn't know you? The attention might be flattering but there's something wrong with this guy. He might not be who or what he says he is. Safer and better for you to meet someone socially than on the internet.
2006-12-16 10:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u do not wanna get involved with this guy.He sounds pretty shady,u are still young get a nice cute for urself.Neva trust pple on the internet.
2006-12-16 10:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's like every other guy...I love you is the typical line guys use to get in your pants. Learn that and learn it quick. If they are worth having as BF's they will be the ones that respect you and are willing to wait. If he is trying to get in your pants using that line...when it doesn't work, he will quickly move on to a new target.
But I love you...
If you loved me...
We should have sex we're in love...
These are what you will here...
Wanna see how fast he disappears.... let him know upfront...it ain't gonna happen.
2006-12-16 10:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO.....HOW CAN I SAY THIS SO YOU ARE NOT OFFENDED. YOU HAVE NEVER MET , HOW CAN HE LOVE YOU, LOVE IS SOMETHING 2 PEOPLE SHARE, IT GROWS STRONGER AND CREATES A BOND BETWEEN 2 PEOPLE, THIS IS CAUSED BY 2 PEOPLE SPENDING TIME TOGETHER AND IN MOST CASES ACTUALLY MEETING EACH OTHER. SO NO HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU.......PS. YOU SHOULD BE TALKING TO YOUR PARENTS ABOUT THIS, PARENTS ARE GREAT THEY ARE ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU................NEXT
2006-12-16 10:28:20 · answer #11 · answered by jardon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋