Friend or boyfriend, help?
I have had two intense make out sessions with a friend that i like. He asked to see my breasts and butt the last time we made out. I did not do it because i did not feel comfortable doing that, but he kept asking me to. He says that we are still friends, i think that we are dating because he said that he would get jealous if i found someone else to be interested in. He confuses me because he says that we are friends but we do things that couples do, like make out. I don't understand him ? HELP ME!!!!!
2006-12-16 09:47:03 · 4 answers · asked by shakespearestalker87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The guy sounds like a manipulative player....and I have met many when I was young. Do not do something YOU don't want to. If a guy is committed to only pressuring you to do stuff you don't want, then that is all that he is interested in. He is being honest enough to say that you are "JUST friends" which, translated, means he doesn't want long-term, serious commitment . So there is nothing to be confused about. When he is GONE , your memory will be of how you remained committed to yourself and how you did not let this person have his way with you. It will give you a sense of satisfaction that he did not win at his game.
2006-12-16 09:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is he to you?
Al B. Sure -R&B singer askes the question in his song (If I'm not your lover) then tell me what I am. He goes on to explain the situation......
I'm just a guy you call to come over,,, and when things are over you tell me to take a walk. ...... "If I'm not your lover, and if 'm not your friend then tell me what I am.
In your case do you even know what you want with this fella? Do you make it a habbit of sleeping with your friends? Where are your emotions? If I can sleep with my friend and not have a relationship with her (that's friends with benefits) I would do that too. But you're not even sure where you stand with this guy.
You're someone he happens to know and is able to have set with or make out as you call it. And at the same time he gets jealous at the thought of knowing that some other guy could have your body too. He doesn't want to share you and he doesn't want to be more than friens (lovers), so then where do you fit in with him?
Please look up the song and let me know if it sounds like you or not.
2006-12-16 18:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have three categories of women:
[1] women they want to screw but haven't screwed yet
[2] women they have already screwed
[3] women too hideous to screw
And we don't hang around with [3]'s, nor do we ask to see their breasts and a$ses.
While women delude themselves and think it is possible, it is in fact *impossible* for a guy to have female friends. Even if he says it, you are not "friends", you are a [1] in his book, soon to be a [2].
2006-12-16 17:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it too!!! You've heard that old saying haven't you?
2006-12-16 17:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by trena h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋