Okay me my bf have made out a couple of times and I asked the question about if I should before the sixth time happened and he says he still wants to at hte dance adn that he was just warming up then so I'm 12 and he's 12 and I KNOW NOT TO HAVE SEX!!! I'm a total Christian so I was raised to know that!!! Do you think I'm too young ?? Please don't go ahrd on me I am ready for it and DEFINETELY want to amke out with him again it was so nice!! And yes I have quite alot of experience!!
2006-12-16 09:31:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Woa you should save your virginity until you're married I mean come on people and yes I am a Christian and think you should save it I mean it's just the right thing to do!! I mean I'm not even going to have oral sex until I'm married (if I ever have oral or anal sex)!!So I know not to do that!! And y would you say "Some Christian you are!"!! That's crazy I have a strong head on my shoulders and when I believe something, no matter what you do to me I'm not gonna go against it!!!
2006-12-16 15:14:45 · update #1
As a christian you should know better... your 12 for god sake. do you seriouly think that he'll be with your FOREVER... you haven't got to high school yet. Sex can mean getting PREGNANT and getting pregnant mean being suck with lack of Education because you will have to take care of the baby. Look ask yourself this if by any chance he got you pregnant..IS GOING TO BE ABLE TO SUPPORT YOU?? Loving someone doesn't mean you have to have sex...there's millions of ways of showing you that you care.
2006-12-16 10:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by smile 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You contradicted yourself. In your question " are you sure I'm ready to do it again??!!" Then in the details you said "I am ready for it". If you were truly ready, you wouldn't have to ask a question like this. By the way, what's so special about the 6th time you make out? I think you're moving a bit fast. If you're a total Christian why do your parents let you have a boyfriend? I really don't understand the question. Having sex doesn't just automatically happen after the 6th time. Hell, I'm 14 and I've made out dozens of times over the past two years. I'm also a virgin.
Just slow down! Enjoy the relationship and just spending time with each other without being orally glued to him, otherwise it is certain you'll do something you regret.
2006-12-16 19:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's really no 'right or wrong' time to start doing things. If you feel that making out at 12 is ok, then it is. But make sure that your bf doesn't EXPECT it of you every time you're alone; it should be a mutual thing that is enjoyed, and he should respect you enough to not pressure you to do things at times when you are not comfortable. That being said, just be careful and have fun! (BUt I would advise not doing anything more than you're already doing with him..... 12 is pretty young still....)
2006-12-16 18:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by sillygoose08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,it is absolutely wonderful that you understand you should not be having sex.However,that can sometimes lead to intercourse,and you arent ready for that.Your boyfriend is going to want "more" eventually,and making out with him isnt going to satisfy that.Also,if you are asking this question,then you are having some sort of doubt.Reguardless as to whether you liked it or not,doesnt mean you are for sure you want to do it again.He needs to have a little more respect for you,than that.He shouldnt "expect" to make out with you everytime he gets a chance to get you by yourself.There are more things to a relationship than that.Having said that,you are young,and you are still growing up and you have your whole life ahead of you.You need to enjoy that.You shouldnt be spending your time,with you being 12 years old,satisfying your boyfriend,whether it be making out or in another form.Enjoy yourself,and have fun but do what YOU want to do.He shouldnt just expect it,because a relationship is about more than making out and engaging in other activities of similar nature.Ultimately you are the one who has to make the decision,no one can tell you what to do we can merely give you our opinion on the subject.Good luck hun,have a good evening.Have fun at your dance!!
2006-12-16 18:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not okay to make out at the age of 12!!!!! What are wrong with kids nowadays?!? Where are your parents when all of this is going on? Some Christian you are!
2006-12-16 19:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by kksundin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know if it is wrong than it's fine with me!
but if you are preg. don't send one question about it . and i wouldn't have sex with some guy who already had sex with some other chick i mean you can have AIDS in a young age i mean u really want to have that i mean by that u are only 12 i really don't think u are ready for that!! if u are christian think about virginty i mean save it for ur husband!!!!!
2006-12-16 19:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by R5T6H9KF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can make out as much as you want. do it until you're blue in the face, it's fun and it's healthy, but you need to make sure that you don't let him or any future boyfriends push you into doing something that you don't want to do. you may also want to consider what kind of reputation you may get around school for making out with boys--i know that was a big deal when i was in middle school/high school. good luck, and be safe.
2006-12-16 19:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Joyous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really up to you. You just don't want to make it to be that everytime you are alone that is all you do. And then that may be the only thing the relationship is about. Because that CAN lead to things you may not be ready for.
2006-12-16 17:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by plharg 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm well im 14 and im happy that you know not to have sex! i am also christain and know not to have sex at my age! i think we are too young for alot of the things we do... oral sex and stuff like that! but lets not get into that... i think that you should talk to him and make sure you tell him that you dont want to have sex and stuff like that! goodluck! HAPPY HOLIDAYS....
2006-12-16 19:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by MICKIE JAMES #1 FAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you are twelve. please do not have sex. it's just not a good idea even if you're safe about it. making out is fine though. but first of all, you don't want to get a rep, and second of all, you don't have to save yourself for marriage or some **** like that, but sex before you're even a teenager is usually...err...illegal, for one thing, and just not a thing you want to do. good luck!!!
2006-12-16 19:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by emspec369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋