not showing affection? She really doesn't show much at all and doesn't initiate whoopi
2006-12-16 08:54:18 · 11 answers · asked by kevkossner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to have a quiet talk about this. It is important to your marriage to have a healthy physical relationship.
She may have needs of her own that you are not meeting. A quiet discussion without accusing each other is the best way to get to the bottom of it.
2006-12-16 08:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? Was she like this before you got married?
When you talk to her about this how does she react? Does she know what your needs are? Have you asked her why she not into being affectionate?
You gotta talk, ask question and get some real answers and then answer make a decision from there
2006-12-16 08:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only control you own behavior. One important thing is that people express love in different ways or "languages". For one person it can be gifts, for another being really listened to, for a third doing favours etc. We tend to show love in the way we want it ourselves, and that can become a problem. Try to find out your wife's love language
2006-12-16 09:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jonas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to initiate your whoopi.
2006-12-16 08:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something bothering her or she has excess stress about something. Talk to her and let her talk it out. Nothing helps more than to have your spouse just listen. Also is she taking any medication that might cause her to not be interested? You can "google" her medication and find out the side effects of anything. Be patient.
2006-12-16 09:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by bluemustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself look HOT and then act like you don't care either way if she is affectionate - in fact, act disinterested (act like your are super busy - don't make her think that you are cheating or anything though)! That is soooo attractive to a women who may have lost a little of it for her husband/boyfriend. Don't bug her about it, she will just be annoyed and be less likely to be affectionate. If you follow my advice, she will be nuts about you in a week!
2006-12-16 08:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Littlesby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't say 'whoopi'. That can't be a turn on, dude.
2006-12-16 08:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she got sick of always doing it before and gave up trying after being constantly ignored or forced to put forth all the effort because you expected her to do it ALL while you laid there and enjoyed it.
You only get as much as you give.
2006-12-16 12:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and find out why she's not affectionate. Was she affectionate in the beginning? If not, then that explains it. She's not going to change b/c u r married. If she used to be then find out what happened to bring about this change.
2006-12-16 09:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by daprty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know!! You dont want to have to wonder off to find it... Maybe she has issues, I know when i dont feel "sexy" i dont want to do it. Make her feel sexy... even if she isnt...LOL i donno....
2006-12-16 08:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋