I'm a kind, nice looking woman and I love to laugh and hopefully am fun to be around. I always always end up with abusive men. In every area of my life apart from choosing men, I'm smart. Could this have anything to do with the fact that my dad abandoned me when I was a baby and I have a history of being abused as a kid?
2006-12-16 08:30:51 · 5 answers · asked by Very Nice Indeed! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK, when I said abusive, I am talking about emotional abuse not cracking me upside the head. This has nothing to do with the class of men I'm dating: all my boyfriends have been extremely well educated and middle or upper class. I don't see how meeting a man in a laundromat would help the situation. I'm talking about men who systematically cut me down and criticize me and try to make me doubt myself.
2006-12-16 08:38:36 · update #1
Men that are "into" abusive relationships know what signs to look for in their next victim. Your history doesn't help your decision making process.
Abusive men have a slow and methodical process to separate the victim from their support systems and gain control of every aspect of your life. Some are very slick about it and make you feel everything is always your fault. Why not talk to the people at
SAFE or another similar organization. Might open your eyes.
2006-12-16 08:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they objective that body of ideas you merely defined. as a fashion to do what they do, being abuse, they ought to be able to have a lady who thinks she's no longer properly worth some thing else. someone they could regulate, keep less than there thumb. that is a lack of shallowness, lack of self-appreciate, and love that they objective. a lady who may face as a lot as him, or dollar the gadget does no longer get a 2d look. in case you imagine you deserve what your getting, then stay. The lie that no individual else may opt for you, and also you're not any further properly worth it, is merely that. A lie. yet he's acquainted with you'll believe it. and also you do. locate a battered woman's protect and get out of there. it is going to in effortless words worsen. Get some counseling on your topics so that you do not keep falling for and attracting those type of adult men. once you exhibit potential, braveness, Independence, and self-worth, you received't attraction to those abusive adult men. keep in ideas unwell attracts unwell!!! ascertain your topics, and also you will locate a healthy relationship! yet commence by technique of having out. it is going to in effortless words worsen!! sturdy success! You deserve more beneficial! you're properly worth some thing, and also you're love able!!!!!
2016-11-26 23:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There aren't single men in churches that I've been to. Men go to church once they get married. There would be like 10 single women in the same church all looking around the place seeing if there were any unattached men there, and there were none.
2016-01-11 18:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lorna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for men in church, a laundromat, or a library. i think it is the places you are finding them now. you are "looking for love in all the wrong places". and by the way, don't use the dating sites i am sure will be posted here.
2006-12-16 08:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IM SORRY TO HEAR YOUR SAD STORY. FIND SOMEONE IN CHURCH WHO ISNT A CRACKHEAD OR ABUSIVEFUCKER!! YOU SEEM LIKE A NICE GIRL LET IT GO!! YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU!! JUST FIND SOMEONE IN A NICE PLACE AND SCOOP THEM OUT FIRST!! OKAY GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-16 08:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋