I am wondering if it really could end up working out. I hear about a lot of relationships that end up working out or even getting stronger after an affair. But it is usually the man that cheats and the woman that has to forgive. what if its the other way around. Can a man really forget about it and continue to love the same way he did before?
2006-12-16 08:16:37 · 8 answers · asked by JV 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I DONT BELIEVE ANYONE CAN EVER TRULY GET OVER IT..YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE THAT INSECURITY AND WONDER IN THE BACK OF YOUR MIND!
2006-12-16 08:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My fiance' has cheated on me 3x. I know it may sound stupid, but I have gotten over it for the most part and in some ways it has made our relationship change. I don't really worry about the little things that most women obsess about because of the infidelity. Even throughout the cheating, we've managed to have a descent relationship and have really become best friends. So, yes I believe cheating or affairs can make a relationship stronger. It really depends on the couple and how your life together was before the cheating.
2006-12-16 09:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by iLuVMyFaMiLy:) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its really hard when someone you love cheats on you no matter what sex you are. men just don't show there emotions as much as women do if you do take this person back the only way things will work out is if this person is really sorry and regrets the mistake they made, if they are not sorry and there just telling you what you want to hear then you should just move on because as much as you would like things to work out you will never forget what they did and how much they hurt you and why would you want to be with someone you can no longer trust.
2006-12-16 08:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by "love" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on her response, and if she is willing to give up the other man. my ex brother in law kept moving his wife to different cities, after she cheated thinking that would solve the problem, for awhile it did until she met another. it just continued on and on, this was just who she was, and couldn't change her. it never got better for him, each time she would beg to get another chance, and every time she would let him down and break his heart all over again. cheating is something one never forgets, even if they can forgive it. once trust is lost u kinda look at the marriage and the person differently, nothing is the same anymore, and i do not think it works. u can forgive it but u will never forget it.
2006-12-16 08:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have never cheated and will not put up with it either. if i found out she cheated even 5 - 10 years later i will react to it as it was now. i will be done and gone. wait, that did happen, i am done and gone and happy, she is out,alone,very unhappy. but she made the decision to cheat,she now has to live with the repercussions. they will ask you; even tho i cheated, dont you love me. my reply was; if you loved me so much you would not have cheated. if they cheat on you one time they will do it again. i am sorry, is a statement that is only good untill the next time it happens.
2006-12-16 08:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In any case it will take a lot of work and commitment on both parts. You should weigh things out. kids? it is not the end of the world but it is h-a-r-d work! Good luck.
2006-12-16 08:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by R W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..
It takes a long time to get over it...
You probably never forget..
2006-12-16 08:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, good!
2006-12-16 08:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by Alex M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋