My Wife and I used to watch Porn together back when we were just Dating. It was so great. I guess when I started watching it alone sometimes on the Internet, she started feeling uncomfortable. Not to mention the whole "Pornography is Wrong" factor. Well, we've gone through some times of me sneaking around getting my NakedSexVideo Fix and hurting my woman's heart. Now I've been clean for at least two or three months...AND IT"S KILLING ME!! Actually, I don't really care for the Porn actors/actresses. Yeah, their bodies are good(sometimes), but I would rather see real people in love having sex. Well, I discovered some websites that have just that. This has made my Pornographic Soborness even more difficult. What makes it even worse is that I think it has affected how I view my own sex life. What can I do to prevent my Past Porn Habbits from requiring a certain look for my own reality Sex Life?
2006-12-16 08:03:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you're addicted and I can tell you it is a downward spiral that will destroy your life and your marriage. Some options are installing "covenant eyes" (an internet accountability filter) on all your computers, cutting the internet off or purposely distracting yourself each & every time you get "the urge" until it is no longer a bad habit/addiction. Glad to see you acknowldge it as a problem, I wish you & your wife the best in marriage and pray that you break free from this bondage. Don't be afraid to get professional counselling. Peace :-)
Read this Dr. Phil article "Is internet porn cheating?";
http://drphil.com/articles/article/54/
2006-12-16 14:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 09:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by wiemer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian family man. Begin by finding a non-denominational church in your area and studying the BIBLE. GOD is the answer. HE sent HIS SON so that we might be among the saved. This is a problem that Satan has caused. You must get the help that you need. GOD is that answer!! Pornography is truly the filth of this world. Please begin looking foir that help ASAP! Have a great holiday with your family.
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2006-12-16 14:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Eds 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read this ebook http://xrl.us/endpornaddiction
2006-12-16 22:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋