Why do they think this? What do u think?

Question

I've known a few lesbians and bisexuals in my life. More than once, the bisexual girls have a belief that everyone's bi; and when I would tell them that I'm as straight as a board, all they would say is "well, u haven't been exposed to girls." The lesbian said that due to my culture, I'm probably straight. Implying that since that's all I was exposed to, and allowed to express; I must be straight...since I don't know anything else. They said, ok, here's a test. "Do u think girls are more attractive than males? Do u think some are hot?" I answered yes to both. They said I was bi because I answered yes to both questions. I assured them that I don't want relations with girls, I just like the way a girl's body looks more than I guy's. But they still maintain that I'm bi and don't know it, just because I admire the female body and think females look better than males as human life forms. In this society of supposesd tolerance, why can't one just admire another's body w/o it taking on a

sexual meaning? What am I doing wrong? I know my orientation, but just because I think my own(and other female), forms look attractive, all of a sudden I'm something else? (They're SURE I'm bi). Should I just keep those kinds of opinions to myself? I'm just matter of factly stating something, and those girls mentioned above took it WAY out of context and insist I don't know(or am afraid of) my own orientation. I'm not friends with them anymore and the comments wher made long ago; but I was just wondering ur take on their feelings and my own. That's y I wrote out the whole conversation. Be honest and be nice. Thanks.

Answer 1

Appreciation of beauty is certainly a different thing than sexual attraction. Hey, I love men, but I also happen to think that Tyra Banks is a Goddess...(and Charlize Theron)...(and...alot of other very female Females.)

I've never known a gay yet who didn't love to play the "Who's In the Closet?" game, or dance the "I Can Convert You!" tango. And the "Scratch a Straight and He/She Will Bleed Lavender" game is an OLD one. Sort of the gay version of "Pin the Tail On the Donkey".

So don't waste energy getting defensive. Just laugh it off. And congratulate yourself for having a refined appreciation for the beautiful of either sex.

Answer 2

don't worry, those girls are just being brats and trying to "recruit" you. you would think that a group that falls victim to so much persecution would be a little more respective of other peoples' beliefs, but they go around "pushing bi" on everyone like an extremist religious group

across the board as a whole, the human population finds female bodies to be more attractive than male bodies. male bodies were designed to do work, while female bodies were designed to attract a mate.

the fact that you see other women as attractive is nature doing its job. though your "attraction" is really more admiration or envy, than anything sexual.

if you look in a magazine, print advertisements for products aimed towards a female demographic depict women in them most of the time. that's just because whether youre trying to sell something to a man or to a woman, the image of a woman will do a better job.

there's nothing wrong with you, just tell those birds to quit being Femi-Nazis!