I am going to my friend's Christmas party today. There will be 9 boys, and 9 girls. I am friends with all the girls, and my Christmas presents to them are too big to fit in my locker, so I want to give my presents. I do not really know any of the boys very well. Is it rude not to get the boys presents? Will it be rude to give presents out at somone else's party?
2006-12-16 07:34:25 · 13 answers · asked by sparkly543 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I don't think it's rude, but you have to do it at the right time. You don't want to be handing out gifts to all the girls when the boys are right there watching. Try handing them out as each girl leaves or keep the gifts in a separate room and tell the girls they can pick theirs up when they leave.
2006-12-16 07:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't say its rude. As long as you're giving gifts to all of the girls. I usually don't get that offended if I'm not getting a gifts. I know that I don't know him well enough to give him something.
Do it at the right time, though. When nobody's sitting around watching.
If you're a girl, and possibley have time, go out and buy some chocolates for those guys. Nothing expensive, just a few hershey's kisses or hershey's bars.
2006-12-16 07:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by countrygurl587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't be rude cause you don't know them.If anything give them a christmas card so they won't think your are being rude. Give the gifts to the girls the day before the party.
2006-12-16 07:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's rude. Put yourself in their shoes. Wouldn't you feel bad seeing how all the girls will be so happy to get their presents but them no? They'll probably not tell you they feel jealous or something but it's obvious, you can tell. I say you either buy all of them presents or none.
2006-12-16 08:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it is a little rude. Wait until your with your friends privately and then give them the gifts.
2006-12-16 07:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Danelle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give the girls there presents and tell the boys to flip a coin for a dance with you and that will be the winners present. NO REAL PRESENT FOR THE BOYS AND NO LOSE OF MONEY FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!EVERYBODYS HAPPY!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-16 07:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Goldfish 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
na i dont. it would be impoliet to give someone a gift that you really dont know and about the party i have no idea how you can sort that out
2006-12-16 14:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by xXxLil-D3viLxXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a white elephant thing. if u dont know what it is search it online. it is a crazy fun present game. merry christmas!
-hetty♥
2006-12-16 07:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dont give out presents at someone elses party !!!!!!!!
2006-12-16 13:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not rude at all dont worry.
2006-12-16 07:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋