who doesn't really like makeup? That watches a movie because they like the plot, not because some famous actor is in it. That doesn;t really care if Nicole Richie is anorexic or not.
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That doesn't laugh and run around with other kids. Who would rather read than talk. Or have a debate, than talk about boys. Who sits and makes up stupid imaginings, looked on as shy, but doesn't have anything to say because all my peers talk about silly unimportant things(to me). Prefers listening to adults talk.
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I feel so loose, unconnected, neither mature, nor my age. I cannot connect with people at all. I do not understand them. I used to dream, but thats been lost. I am consumed, I look down on their immaturity, yet make up games in my head. I feel lonely, so I escape in a book, or a dream, where others are like me
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I HATE IT!!!!!!! why?
2006-12-16 07:22:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am the same way. You are the way that people were originally supposed to be when God created them: creative, deep, caring, and kind. Even if you don't feel mature, that's alright! You don't need to be mature, you're fourteen. That is the way that GOd intended for you to be! Read the book, Stargirl. It is a really great story about a 15 year old girl that is so different and hated just because she is overly kind and smart and thoughtful. Kudos to you!
2006-12-16 11:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a 14 year old girl and i dont like to wear makeup becuase it bugs me and ppl wear too much. and if i do wear makeup then its like a little lip gloss and mascara(which you can't even tell i am wearing it because i use so little) but i hardly ever wear makeup at all. i watch movies because they sound interesting not because there is a famous person in it. i don't care about nicole richie. i do laugh with other kids my age and have a good time with them but i don't talk that much. i love to read and i also like talking but not extensivly. i would rather talk about boys than debate but i dont act stupid about boys or anything. i definitly make up stupid imagining things also. i am looked on as EXTREMELY shy, i like talking to and listening to ppl my age. i feel mature/immature at the same time. i do feel pretty unconnected, but i feel my age. i pretty much hate my life. but i still hope it will get better. and just for the girl that talked about being friends with pencil thin girls . . . not everyone that is skinny is obsessed with boys, and popular. because i lot of ppl tell me i look anorexic(i am not), and i am the comeplete opposite of your "pencil-thin" friends. i do wear abercrombie though =). i like it.
2006-12-17 17:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only girl who feels this way. It's not unusual so dont pressure yourself. You are just more mature than them. I am 12 and there are a lot of girls at my school who wear make-up and the only kind I would have to wear is naturally (which I only wore 2x this year). I like to talk to adults too and I find there conversations rather interesting. Just think of this...their immaturity are going to lead them to bad things, yet you being more mature and conscious will guide you to things that are good in life.
2006-12-16 13:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl, 15 and i dont like make up i sometimes wear lip gloss but nothing else.idc that n richie is anorexic
i dont really run around and laugh with kids. but id rather read instead of talk i like to read alot. but id rather talk about boys and not debate. i i sometimes sit and make up stupid things. im looked on as shy. i sometimes prefer listening to adults
weird but that last paragraph i do too
2006-12-16 10:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 and I feel like that a lot. A ton of girls at my school pretend to be stupid so boys will like them. I really know how you feel. The girls at my school see you hanging out with boys and think you like them. I think you're more mature than you're giving yourself credit for.
But I'm friends with some girls like that. The pencil thin girls, and they're really nice, they're just different from what I'm used to. I like being friends with them, because even though I don't wear make up, I don't wear Abercrombie, they're really nice to talk to about life. I talk to my other friends about fantasy, we're dreamers. My friend says she envies me. That I can stay down to earth. I envy her, because she can escape easier than me. Everyone's different.
I hate it when I feel like you because a lot of times, I'll be feeling self concious. But you probably hate it for a different reason. I think everyone feels like they're not connected at one point. But we all are, just in different ways. You're connected by books, they're connected by celebs. We all have a way to keep our sanity. Some use things such as regular objects, others use big things or people. You're you, I'm me, we're us.
2006-12-16 11:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by polaris grl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh!! I feel exactly the same way. You nearly wrote three paragraphs about me. Im serious. I am EXACTLY like that. and I write poetry a lot also.
I am also 14.
wow I never thought someone would have the exact same opinion as I.
wow.
2006-12-17 01:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by tangerine9561 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i bet you're not the only one like that! Adults will probably think that you are a smart girl and make the right decision. Everyone is different!
2006-12-16 10:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like 3 years older than you and i don't wear make-up i think that it is to much going on...so or later i will wear it when I'm ready to...also I think that you just need to get around people just like you...you need to interact with people who feel and think just like you...you is just afraid to come out and meet people your age and live your life to the fullest
2006-12-16 10:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mrz. Small 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...i thought i was the only girl who didt wear makeup my age and tat was all girly n stuff....i dont wear makeup...or reallt care wats goin on w/ the "stars" i dont really liek to laugh w/ ppl i dont no i am really shy that is wat ppl say but i'm not really i jus dont talk alot..w/ ppl i dont no...so do i i feel like im unconeected(like u said) i feel like im mature for my age cuz all of my cuzins are like soo OMG i saw this hotty...and u no and so on.... adn i hate to talk to boys to other ppl even if they are my friends...i cant connect with ppl either...i mean i started high skool...i got jus got a couple of friends...out of like 1,000 kids and all of my other friends are making like a whole mess of friends..i dont really care but i feel left out...i feel lonley tooo all the time i feel like left out on everything...i dunno..k so i-m me i already tried to i-m u yesterday...but u havent i-med me bk..k bye and happy holidays
2006-12-17 13:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by =~*chivas*~= 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you're not alone be proud of who you are. You seem like someone I would be friends with when I was 14.
2006-12-16 16:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by cocoavanillagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋