She has an ex husband (they were together 2 years) and several ex boyfriends. She has a history of choosing men as partners, but says she's a lesbian and definately not sexually enthusiastic about men. What's the deal? (I'm a dude)
2006-12-16 06:55:26 · 13 answers · asked by Zloar 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hmm... is this her way of breaking up with you?
I don't understand why she is telling you unless she plans to do something about it since she is not currently in a lesbian relationship.
I'm a woman with a husband although sexually I prefer women. However, I've never been happy having a girlfriend nor have I ever been in love with a woman romantically.
I am deeply in love with my husband and he has known that I'm sexually attracted to women as long as he has known me, but we are married and committed to each other and so sex for either of us with anyone else is out of the question.
So, I'm wondering if your girlfriend is asking you if it's ok with you if she has sex with woman and still be in a relationship with you, 'cause frankly, I'm with you: what IS the deal?
I say just flat out ask her what she wants from YOU! Does she want to break up? Does she want to stay with you but have sex with women? and then you have to decide if that's a relationship you want to have with her.
Best of luck!
2006-12-16 07:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend and I are very similarly "moving fast" according to the rest of the world but in my opinion when you find the right person there is no such thing. You won't burn out as long as you continue to value each other and work at the relationship during good and bad times. I'm so happy for you both!
2016-05-22 23:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she deal with men, she's not a Lesbian, she's BI so you still may have a chance.
2006-12-16 07:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Vanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're normal hetero, then your relationship with her hasn't much of a future and certainly no meaningful future in sexual terms. You're better telling her so and looking elsewhere.
2006-12-16 07:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's a lesbian and trying to cover it.....
she could also be bisexual though. She should read a pamphlet...I know I have a hotmline for bis and gays somewhere....I'll post that when I find it
2006-12-16 07:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by cattys_cats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely
2006-12-16 07:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes been experimenting all these years and she finally realizes shes a lesbian so sry man i think your romantic and sexual relationship with her are doomed
2006-12-16 07:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by TK 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
whoo and you let your self get that close with her i guess try to see if you can have her and her friend might as well before she just flat out choose girls
2006-12-16 07:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by raradaone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is telling u that she is lesbian, then that means she prefers women.
2006-12-16 07:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should assure that's her final decision... maybe she's bisexual..clear this up first and then decide what u may do..
2006-12-16 06:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by ddyk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋