Should a husband ask about his wifes sexual past ?? How many lovers etc ?

Answer 1

absolutely. You need to know whether your wife is a skank. But you might have asked her those questions before you got engaged dude

Answer 2

I don't think a guy should ask about his wife's sexual past. I DO think that a wife should be willing to discuss it but she should bring it up. The ONLY reason she should ask is if she has a STD or children from other men. If neither of those are the case then leave it alone.

If you really want to know you should tell her that you have been wanting to know about her past sexual partners but you don't know it is appropriate or not. My husband and I had a lot of conversations start that way in our first year of marriage.

Answer 3

BAD IDEA. first if she doesn't have and STDs from banging half the world then your good. I know from experience nothing can make a man feel more inadequate than your woman comparing you to her past lover's. especially if she believes they are better. If she gets that look in her eyes while she talking about them your a short timer
or she going to soon cheat on you. Be thankful if your wife gives you some. A lot of husbands don't even get that

Answer 4

It may not be too wise to ask. I used to live with this girl and we aked each other about our past. I had quite a few more than she did, or so she said. Well, of course, if there was an argument, that always got thrown back at me. Don't live in the past. It could come back to haunt you. The most important thing is you're married to her now. Enjoy your time with her.

Answer 5

I dont think that it is a good idea to ask or even to know. The past should stay in the past. As long as you she isn't walking around with no STD's and she wasent getting paid then I wouldnt worry about it.Why would you want to know anyways. At the end of the day it wouldnt make you feel any better knowing.

Answer 6

I think both should be talking about there sexual past. You just need to be ready for what ever answer that you may hear. If there is something you do not want to hear...don't ask the question

Answer 7

Some people think that is a very private thing. Depends on how you will take the answer - do you really want to know and can you handle it?

My husband asked me that question about 15 years ago, my answer had no effect on our relationship.

Answer 8

No you need to no longer in simple terms relax and could pretend that your spouse became a whore. She tricked you into marriage by making use of lies. by making use of the way why do you sense that its o.k. to have slept with 10 human beings. Is sound asleep with 10 human beings considered a physically powerful females. that would desire to have already instructed you that she became no longer a ethical guy or woman. What became her reason of telling you all approximately her filthy previous. Did she get a kick out of it ,or became she seeing in case you desire to have a threesome. If i became you i could go away and initiate a sparkling life with a guy or woman who isn't a liar, which will l have some morals.in simple terms then will you have a happy life..

Answer 9

No. Once you are married, it's too late to ask. If he wanted to know, and if it would make a difference on how he feels about her, he should have asked before getting married.

If he finds out she has a "colorful" past and he is disturbed by it, it will only hurt the marriage.

As long as she is faithful and he is happy, why muddy the waters.

Answer 10

I think a husband does have a right to know, especially if his wife has been having sex in the past. I feel it is his right to know. But if he asks, he needs to be careful because it could cause some serious trust issues.

Answer 11

This is a question I would have discussed before I got married. I think that not sharing relevant information about your past can make for an awkward relationship. If you can't be open and honest with the one you choose to marry, who can you be honest with?