I an trying to figure out why this person came back into my life and when we taked all information I got was that we had a perfict relationship because we were living together as common-law husband and wife. Then when all of a sudden, I fixed my room back to the way we use to live, all of a sudden the memory of him being with a nother came fludding back to me. I did not rememer this and when I did, it hurt me so bad. I confrunted him and he admitted that he was seeing this woman and that they were still seeting each other. What should I do? I notice that there is a bond between us because anhy time he is hurting some how I feel his pain . Why did he come back into my life. During the time we had split I had no feelings for him, but then one day I was thinking that I should find someone serious to settle down with and out of the blue, he was shown to me in my spirit. I did not pursue but by some strange situation he came back into my life and my feelings for him camb back, help!
2006-12-16 05:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by Nichola S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes you have to let go of things that hurt you and let someone love you. This person is probably back in your life because you were meant to be. Why fight it? Why bring up the past when you should be looking toward your future??
2006-12-16 06:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off your English is bad and spelling is even worst. Do you know about Spell Check....
For me once I broke up with someone I never went back and tried to straighten things out. Bad Omen for me. If he messed up once with another women what makes you think he won't do it again. I would not take the chance on that happening again, no matter what your feeling are towards him at this moment in time...
What if you got married and he decided to see someone on the side. You would have to live with you mistake....
No I would look around for someone more stable....
Good luck
2006-12-16 14:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Angell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is NOT available- don't waste your time. There's other people around. Don't chase after somebody who is not available to you. If you were common-law husband and wife- that's not the same thing. Don't you consider yourself good and worthy enough to marry? If you are good enough to live with for a long time- and you act like your married then why shouldn't you BE married? If a person is not committed---at any moment they can decide that arrangement isn't FUN anymore and move on. Don't belittle yourself! YOU GO GIRL- stand UP for YOURSELF!
2006-12-16 14:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be in love with someone who admits to you that he is in love with someone else? I don't mean to judge you because I know that love can make us do silly things. But honestly, a man who doesn't know your worth,most definitely doesn't deserve to have you. Trust me there's always someone better out there. Don't hold yourself back.
2006-12-16 14:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by L J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away from this guy. If it did not work the first time: it will not work now
2006-12-16 13:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
check your spelling next time. I can't understand
2006-12-16 13:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋