i found a text in my boyfriends phone saying " why are you mad at me baby"? cheating has been a big thing with us and ive asked him prior to the text and he says no i would never do that to u EVER! i couldnt risk giving u a disease for health reasons and lossing u cuz i love u.
well i thought id feel closure after finding this text cuz he'd have to admit to it now. still 100% denies it. the reason i wrote that is because i wanted her to buy something from him (he is broke he needs money like crazy) so he said that so he wouldnt loose her as a customer. he is 23 he said she is 48! i told him how cani believe u its like one thing after another. he says he is tired of being accused but look at the happens! i wouldnt accuse if this stuff wouldnt happen. when he tells me its like i almost believe him he said ur prob gonna break up with me anyway. so i said then u should admit to it! and he still wont. he said i havent even hugged someone when ive been with u I DONT CHEAT. HELP
2006-12-16 05:51:38 · 6 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't call a customer "baby." You call a girlfriend or boyfriend "baby." I am in sales and I have NEVER called anyone baby, darling, sweetie, sugarpie, or anything else. Not only is it unprofessional and you'll lose the sale, you can get sued for harrassment. He is cheating on you.
You should leave him and find a guy who will treat you with respect.
2006-12-16 05:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Neerdowellian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like a very complicated situation, the bottom line is, if you have absolute proof that your boyfriend is cheating than you can make the decision of leaving or working this out.
Accusations without grounds or even gut feelings can be wrong if you love someone, it might be just jealousy and that is normal.
Make sure you have proof and perhaps find someone less troubled. Relationships are never easy, but honesty, loyalty and mutual respect must be there for the both of you.
Don't worry, if he is not the one for you after all I am sure you will find your true mate sooner or later, Don't get too upset, cheer up!
Best Of Luck to you
Irene
2006-12-16 06:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump Him because if you dont and he really is cheating on you and you find out your going to have serios trust isuses and that will drive all men away. TRUST ME!
2006-12-16 05:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Larenzo S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him as much as you can. Just keep your eyes open. Try calling the chick that sent him a text and ask who she is, and see if her story is valid to what your boyfriend told ya.
2006-12-16 05:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
weal..if you care too much to a person she could say you\'re jelous...
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2006-12-16 05:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him... Once a cheater always a cheater..
2006-12-16 05:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by charnel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋