I know alot of people including myself, that realy want to do things, but never go along and do them. For example, anyone wanted to go back to school? and you always talk about it, but never do it. or have any of you ever had a dream of even opening up a business and always talk about it but never do it? I DONT WANT TO HEAR BECAUSE THEY ARE LAZY. Ther must be more to this than just that
2006-12-16 05:45:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I believe it is the fear of finding out that you can't "cut-it" doing what they really want to do. Of failing at whatever you really want to do. No one wants to know, for a fact, that you can't do their dream job. That would be killing a dream.
2006-12-16 06:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by llwyn3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny- I was thinking the same thing about me. It's not that they are "AFRAID" of succcess, but rather "HESITANT" of actually doing it. I have dreams to start my own business, and I actually one day woke up and stopped "talking about it" and started "doing it". But its hard! And I'm not giving up. There are struggles to get to the top. And thaat's why most people don't do what they say. They want to skip climbing the latter, and just be at the TOP. They don't take the steps needed to get to that goal they are looking for. Or they fear they won't be good enough to succeed. It takes faith, paitience, and it takes good planning. Don't talk about it, be about it....... And one day, you will be success.
2006-12-16 15:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Procrastination runs amuck. You work a regular job and barely save enough to call it a savings, we all understand that so going beyond that point for most cause they don't want to take a chance on loosing what little they have. We all need a little hope or dream
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2006-12-16 14:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because of your nuero-association with the thought of it, You have pain or non-pleasure associated with it. The things you have a positive association to.. you will do effortlessly. You can reprogram yourself,by interrupting the cycle of negative feelings and instantly linking the thought to something pleasurable. It works.
2006-12-16 14:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you succeed the more is expected of you then the worry of failing kicks in... it is like a circle.
2006-12-16 13:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋