I've got a very close girlfriend who hangs around alot of bad influences. Now i don't mean to sound super goody-goody but it's gotten to the point where i'm not sure it's good for her to be around them at all. Most of them are 17-18 and/or graduated from our school last year. She hangs out with them when they're high and i'm honestly not sure if she should be trusted with her own virginity (which i know is not my place but i worry anyway) She said to me though that she would "Go to jail [herself] before [she] ratted [her] friends out"... But i don't think it should come to that. She shouldn't be hanging out with them if they're in that much trouble. What d'y'all think?
2006-12-16 05:36:34 · 5 answers · asked by Sae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you are right . It sounds like your friend has made some bad decisions in choosing some of her friends. I guarantee you that if something bad happened...nobody would protect her or go to jail for her. She's very naive to think that way. Drug friends aren't real friends...they have alterior motives and shouldn't be trusted. I'm saying this from experience, unfortunately. Try to have a heart to heart talk with her if she's been a good friend and tell her your concerns. Tell her that you are worried about her and don't want to see her get hurt or in trouble. If she chooses to continue what she's been doing, then you may have to make a hard decision about your friendship with her. You can't let her drag you down or get you into trouble. Be careful and good luck. You are a good friend for caring.
2006-12-16 05:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her parents. Let them know what she's up to. Ask them to not tell her the info. came from you. They should agree to respect that. You are a good friend and should be worried. good luck.
2006-12-16 14:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do wht evr u have to to keepp her away from them. make 24/7 plans wit her or make sure she doesnt have time for those druggies
2006-12-16 13:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right
2006-12-16 13:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by Aby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just have to live and learn
2006-12-16 13:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by new life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋