my boyfriend and i used to have a great sex life, lately he has not been able to orgasm without oral stimulation, he is on a beta blocker and has had a stressful semester but i can't help but wonder if the problem is me...
2006-12-16 05:36:23 · 6 answers · asked by steady as we go 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
it may be the beta blocker and stress acting together. giv ehim some gap and try again at a different locale - like a holiday home or a trip out into the woods. the problem is definitely not you.
2006-12-16 05:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress can kill an erection so that even when a guy wants to have sex he just can't keep it up, or can't orgasm without extra help. Though it is true that medicines can affect people in a variety of ways, especially anti-depressants. A situation like this a good opportunity to have sexual fun without the extreme drive to orgasm...men get used to the quick and easy and rarely if ever savor the jounrney before reaching the goal....Good luck!
2006-12-16 06:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by DoctorJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember something: Pharmaceutical companies are there to make you paranoid and take your money....There is NO erectile dysfunction....everything IS mental. What he needs to do is three things..... work out, do yoga and meditation. You'll have the best sex of your life after he does this for even just a couple of weeks. good luck, Jack
2006-12-16 05:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you! Heart meds are terrible on erections.
First question to answer is whether he's still getting strong morning erections while he's asleep. Wake up before him and check; it'll be a little hit and miss. A urologist will be a good start for problem solving.
Stress and fatigue are a huge problem for erections, too.
2006-12-16 05:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are really concerned tell him to go see his doctor. If he's not concerned maybe it's you or stress. Just be honest with him and tell him that you are worried.
2006-12-16 05:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by christinemw81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cant know u need to explore urself
2006-12-16 05:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by mane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋