is it bad to have sex at the age 13 but i use protection and i make sure he has it on! and i did like him and 1 time i was on a drug called extasy i no its bad but i had fun it felt gewd am i bad!
2006-12-16 05:26:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You are far to young to be having sex! You shouldn't be doing drugs either!You need to concentrate on school sweety. You have your whole life ahead of you! Don't waste this time. Don't be in a rush to grow up. It is not grown-up and not responsible of you to be acting this way.
2006-12-16 05:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your brain is still developing and reaches its prime at about 19-22. This is why you should not drink and do drugs until you are in that age range. Ecstasy is the kind of drug where you will never achieve the same high as the first time. While on Ecstasy it is normal to love everyone around you. Since it is an illegal drug there have been no studies done to see how it permanently affects brain development. Who did you get the drug from? There are many people out there who will put anything into a pill and call it Ecstasy. I think that the first time having sex and the first time trying a drug or alcohol should be very different experiences. It is not bad or good to have sex at 13. As long as you don't feel guilty, ashamed or bad about it. Everyone becomes sexually mature at different ages. I don't know what state you live in and what laws they have. You need to make an appointment with a gynecologist and start your yearly exams. condoms are not 100% effective against disease or pregnancy. If you are going to continue having sex you should also start on birth control.
2006-12-18 15:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are way too young to be having sex. I'm 14 and I know this. I know someone who started having sex very young and now they have a screwed up life and are very depressed and talk about killing themself. Also to have sex with someone you should REALLY love them. You are only in what about 8th grade? How much can you really love someone in 8th grade. I've had plenty of boyfriends and yeah I said I "loved" them but it wasn't true love.
Think about it this way you start having sex at 13 then you still continue it with more guys. Now you are probably 10 times as likely to get an STD than someone who waited till they were about 17. I mean this is ridiculous. People can die from STD's I would just tell you to stop having sex even if you are using a condom they can break! (that's the reason I'm here today) I think sex at 13 is crazy so personally I think you need to stop.
As for taking Ecstacy, that is even more ridiculous than sex. That stuff is so strong, and so many people get really hurt from it or die. It doesn't matter if it made you feel good, how good are you going to feel when you hurt yourself? I can't believe you would do this. This must stop. I feel really bad that you are doing these things and I hope in the back of my mind this is just a sick joke.
2006-12-16 18:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you put it on right, maybe you should get on birth control, I am ,but not because I'm having sex, I'm 15 and a sophomore. Don't take X you could easily die from just a couple of those. It's not really bad to have sex at that age but it REALLY ISN'T GOOD either. Maybe you should get your priorities together first and wait until your in love with a guy not just because you like him. You probably won't stop having sex so you should find out all the consequences of sex and learn about all the protection.
2006-12-16 13:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be having sex. Losing your virginity is a very special thing and you should of waited till you were married. You didnt even love him you just gave it away like that to some guy you like and why did you do drugs?? you could damage your body so much. It may have only been one time but who knows next time you see someone you like or someone tries to give you drugs you might take it the drugs and have sex again. Your making alot of bad decisions. Hopefully you'll stop. Just pray and trust in God and everything will be ok.
God bless you
2006-12-16 17:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Questions ^_^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im lee and im 14 a lil older than you but A HELL OF ALOT SMARTER! can you be any dumber! you learn not to do drugs you learn about sex! a condom is only 86% affective!!! and if you get pregnate then your throwing your life away! you could die from that drug! and if you know its bad why would you do it..... i dont give a flying s h i t if you think it felt good! you may have fun at the time but think about after the fun is over... YOU WONT BE HAVING FUN AGAIN! you will be at home with a baby... if you are still alive that is............ hell you can die from being pregnate at that age! im still a virgin and waiting untill i find the right person! IM NOT BEING A S L U T and giving boys what they want for fun... there using you! yes you are bad yes you are stupid yes you need to go focus on your school work and YES YOU NEED TO GET A LIFE....... happy holidays :)
2006-12-16 19:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by MICKIE JAMES #1 FAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need to call 911 immediately and tell your parents.
At 13 you are not of the age of consent. This means that you are too young to decide whether or not you can have sex. The fact that you were drugged does not matter.
You are not bad, at all. In this case the person that you were with did something very bad. They will continue to do bad things unless someone stops them. You need to tell your parents and contact the police before this person really hurts someone. He left you confused, wondering if you are bad.... the next girl may not be so lucky.
Talk to your parents.
2006-12-16 15:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what is really bad? You taking drugs. That will ruin everything you have in life.
Also, you having sex is just not appropriate for your age. You're barely through with puberty, you haven't even gotten a decent education. Do you want a child without at least being able to teach it SOMETHING?
I only hope you're joking. I know I'm only 17, but I wasn't even participating in those things at that age.
2006-12-16 14:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Tifferkins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Atleast ur using protection. And don't blame x...u still know what ur doing when ur on it. When u end up pregnant or with some nasty STD will be when u actually care. Y r u asking? It's not like u'd take good advice anyway. Okay then. Don't do drugs and stop having sex!
2006-12-16 13:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by [un]bro/ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day I killed some one, and it was fun. Does having fun is a justification for my actions?... I'm kidding, never killed any one, but seriously, do you think having sex and being on drugs is acceptable just because it is fun? There are many bad things that may be fun. stealing may be fun, but is bad, as bad as anything else your concience tells you it is bad (I hope you have a concience). There is a lot to life than fun. What about respect (for you and for others), good grades, family time, your relationship with God, etc? Please, value and respect yourself. Love is far more than just fun, plus there is a time for everything. Wait till it is time.
2006-12-16 14:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by skydiver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋