What I mean is, if you have a secret or know something about someone that people don't know, do you tell them or do you keep them to yourself? I have a lot of secrets about a lot of stuff, I usually don't tell but these last couple of weeks I've told my friends a lot of stuff. It feels good to get stuff off my chest but I still keep deep dark secrets that I can't tell anyone. What about you?
2006-12-16 05:22:03 · 14 answers · asked by Alterna 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i shoot my mouth off like a broken firehydrant, but i try not to hurt anyone. More often the only one i hurt is me.
Someone wise told me to say less, even about yourself and let people discover things themselves.
On an internet dating site, everything is kosher until I open up a little bit, then they see the poor, misguided child withing.
See i shouldn't even have told you that
2006-12-16 05:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by pipo barnbarn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if the person who told me also said not to tell anyone else and on how serious the secret is...
on my secrets, i tell only things that i don't mind everyone else knowing, that way i don't put temptation into a friends hands, it's just hard for alot of people to keep a secret no matter how good of friend they are.
2006-12-16 05:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned in life to keep secrets unless it is a secret that can cause another person great harm or death. What I mean isn't emotional harm I mean physical harm. I also learned in college if a patient confides in us that they did something such as a crime or plan to do a crime even though what is said to us in session is supposed to be "secret" we are by law required to inform law officials. But if its just a friend telling me something usually I keep the secret and forget about it as time passes. After all would you want someone telling others your secrets?
2006-12-16 05:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep the deep dark secrets to myself, and the rest I don't even consider secrets.
2006-12-16 05:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on both the person and the thing in question.
Like probably most people, I sometimes feel better when I confide in someone... whether it's a good thing or a bad thing I'm relating.
2006-12-16 06:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Quang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone tells me everything because they trust me. I decided not to tell anyone because the people come to me for help and advice. If it is bad like i am goin to kill myself i immediatley tell someone. I saved my friends life. It depends on what it is. Like if it is a crush or personal i keep it to my self, if it is like dealthly or will cause harm i tell someone
2006-12-16 05:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep them to myself even if I have a secret so I'm a quiet boy
2006-12-16 10:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by lucky charm 127 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That I won't continually be on my own, that there is a woman obtainable someplace who desires my love. ...and that each and each physique my objectives can come actual if I in simple terms commit to them... have a physically powerful one ;)
2016-10-15 01:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really have alot of secrets... but I don't want to bother others with my gloom- so I tell sometimes, but not alot.
2006-12-16 05:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by delusionalenigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider the consequences of revealing the information. If everyone benefits, reveal it! If not, keep it to yourself.
2006-12-16 05:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋