at my school, the staff discourages pda(public display of affection). you know, hugging touching. but its not really that bad, besides were gonna do it anyway. what are we without affection?
2006-12-16 05:17:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Because the kids (and teachers) who don't have significant others will get jealous.
2006-12-16 05:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is discoraged just about any school. The security officers get made because it is not acceptable in society (in terms of making out). The students could careless. Hugging and "proper" touching is okay. High schools are a little more easy-going with hugging than middle schools.
2006-12-16 07:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Steve C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think they might have trouble drawing a line, so instead they just say not at all. Certain pda behaviors like holding hands, conservative hugs, and quick and very conservative kisses are appropriate but no one wants to see other people making out or worse. There are things that people do anyway but don't do in public (going to the bathroom comes to mind as well as many kinds of pda). In my opinion anything that isn't appropriate in public isn't appropriate for unmarried people to do at all anywhere. If you can't do it in front of your grandma you shouldn't be doing it at all. There are certain things that are worth waiting for. Keep it to holding hands and conservative hugs and you will be glad you did when you get married.
2006-12-16 05:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by AerynneC 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
School is for learning how to be a productive citizen! This is not the 'hippy era', where everyone loved everyone else. Keep your pda to after school only. Remember, you can't get a job by just knowing how to show affection to people and you can't get into college by it either.
2006-12-16 05:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go through all the questions on this site and count how many girls and boys are going crazy because they are having kids and don;t know what the heck to do. They don't know whether to kill it or just tell there parents or drop out or how the heck they are gonna support it
2006-12-16 12:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Nevaeh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.
School isnt a social party, its not a place to focus on the physical aspects of being a teenager.
School is about getting an education, so later, as an adult, you can afford yourself the time to do things such as touching and hugging and making out and so on.
Its not about being popular, having friends, or having a social life, its SCHOOL, where you LEARN subjects like math and science so you can get a job.
PDA isnt needed at school. It doesnt pertain to your furthered education.
This is a lesson in real life. Have fun!
2006-12-16 05:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I am asuming from your name that you are about 13 years old, which means you are in middle school, which means you should not even be worried about having someone to PDA wih.
Just because you think it is ok, does not make it ok.children kissing in the hallways is just wrong, you should be getting your books out of your locker for your next class. School is for learning, learning how to kiss is not on the academic schedual.
2006-12-16 05:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
to start up... PDA rule isn't only for structure faculties. (whoever stated that.) maximum middle faculties have them (i'm no longer constructive about HS) At my college we've PDA regulations, too. yet I under no circumstances see them enforced, fairly. human beings hug each of the time, yet i have under no circumstances seen someone get in hassle. yet fairly, this is only to make each more thing desirable tender for each human being. i understand it only makes me a touch uncomfortable at the same time as there is like 3 couples hugging in the midst of the hallway, and blockading my thanks to class. it ought to't be awkward for you, even though it really is for those round you. i imagine that your situations were type of intense, yet when your college needs to implement that coverage so strictly, they have each precise to finish that.
2016-10-18 09:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may not feel the same way. School officials are charged with overseeing children during classes and that means preventing them from pawing all over each other. It's their parents, administrators and even lawmakers who make the rules, no matter how you may see things.
2006-12-16 05:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Reo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're referring to high school, probaby because ya'll are all still minors. Children, basically. And should not be displaying affection publicly. That's pushing some kind of boundary, legally.
2006-12-16 05:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by Empress 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its to reduce the eisk of kids having sex in school. they are trying to discourage sexual behavior as its not appropriate. do you see adults kissing and holding hands and petting at work nope because there is a time and a place for it school and work arent it. grow up
2006-12-16 05:23:49 · answer #11 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋