That's why we cuckold them, right? Ok, husbands are there to put roof over our heads & bring food to the table. But they work too long in the office & get home very tired. So who's there to take care of his wife's emotional & sexual needs? That's where my hot lover comes in. We always had so much fun in the house whenever my husband's not around. Recently, he proposed that he wants to make love to me on the coming birthday party of my clueless hubby. I said yes, & grew so excited by that, & i allowed him to place a very visible kissmark on my left armpit as a symbol of his having the upper hand on my husband when it comes to the scoring on me sexually & emotionally. In the house, i always wear sleeveless clothes, & my stupid husband asked me what is there in my armpit. i almost died laughing. Anyway, are some husbands this dumb? &, is it ok for a wife to get so excited by the coming birthday party of her husband for the reason that her lover is about to make love to her right there?
2006-12-16 05:14:47 · 28 answers · asked by Yvette R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In a perfect world, your "stupid" husband is working late having sex with twins named "Karma" and "Payback".
2006-12-16 05:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 22:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The situation you described is deplorable.
If you don't want to be married then tell your husband. Let him be free. There are many women who would be thrilled to have a husband who wasn't jealous, abusive and or lazy. The other women could be attuned to his needs and show him the affection he deserves for the hard work he does to provide for them.
When one partner has needs they need met maybe they should look at what they are giving to the other partner. If you aren't giving to your husband then he may not feel like there is anything he needs to give to you.
You do not have the upper hand on your husband when it comes to scoring emotionally. He will be hurt when this all comes out but in the long run, you will be the one to suffer. Life has a funny way of working out like that.
In answer to your last question, no it is not OK!
2006-12-16 05:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by T 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I presume your husband doesnt have a secret lover himself, but is pre-occupied with his work. Many husbands get so stressed about their work that they dont give much time for their wives/children. This is sad, but a fact of today's rat race life.
The sexual needs you expect from your husband are very natural for a married woman. Maybe the question he asked you what the marks on your armpit were, has been added as an afterthought i since first you said he didnt notice it! What is the truth? If it really was his question then he is not stupid, but is too pre-occupied to read the sign.
The best way to sort this out is to openly tell him that you want sex from him, and that too often enough, as you are a normal woman. If he has any problems on this score, ask him to tell you freely so that each knows where the other stands on matters of sex. Your taking a lover seems to be an act of desperation, maybe to jolt your husband into action, but unfortunately it hasnt worked. In a relationship of mutual trust and understanding that marriage implies, such acts dont speak well. You should abstain from sex from your hot lover on your hubby's birthday, and from him or anyone else in future. Do you want your marriage to go to the rocks? If yes, first get to know what your husband feels about sex with you, and then decide if you want to terminate the union.
Having said this, if I were a husband, I would be to blame if I consider my wife to be a housekeeper. Unless I have a problem (beside professional pre-occupation) such as impotency, drugs, other women in my life, or mere lack of time for sex, then I would consider that reasonale sex with my wife is an inseparable part of wedded life, and I would be failing in my duty as a husband if I dont have sex with her.
Give some time for your husband to think about it, after you have had a heart to heart talk with him on your sexual needs and other aspects where you think he has failed. If he is tired, get him something to improve his stamina, consult a doctor, take him on a weekend vacation, seduce him in bed, perform acts like oral sex or other stimulations that would get him interested. Maybe he will then realise what he is missing in sexual matters. (I assume that you are reasonably good looking and endowed with natural physical features that would attract most men.If not so lucky, see what you can do to reach there.)
Good luck to you both, and happy birthday to your husband.
2006-12-16 15:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, i take it that you get to sit home on your bum, while your husband gets up every morning and goes to work so you are able to do so, Right?
So, then my personal opinion is that you are a self-indulged greedy unappreciative b**** . Any real woman would talk to her husband and tell him he needs to start takeing care of business, and give him a chance.
And you have enough nerve to ask if it is ok? What did you fall out the banana tree yesterday? Thats ok because it will all come back to you..Because for one you are probably w/ him so you dont have to work and you can spend the money he is out makeing..Maybe he isnt as stupid as you think, hhe might know what that is on your armpit he just doesnt care, because he might have a secret of his own...OOOO i can feel the heat from here boy i bet you wouldnt like that, you dont want him, but you dont want any other girl to have him....but see thats exactly what will happen, you will get a taste of your own medicine. And he will probably throw you out on your bum...and instead of sitting on the couch all day eating bon bons and watching oprah, you are going to have to get a job, so you should invest in a dvr sweetheart...
2006-12-16 08:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by laci 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is my first answer, so let's hope it's an intelligent one. Short and sweet shall set the tone as I fear that is the only way for my advise to ring true to the questioner.
Q: "That's why we cuckold them, right?"
A: In your case a resounding yes, but please don't speak for others with the use of "we"
Q: "So who's there to take care of his wife's emotional & sexual needs?"
A: In a monogamus relationship, the answer is always "the husband".
Q: "Anyway, are some husbands (your sp) this dumb?"
A: Use any label you want: ignorant; lazy; oblivious; forgiving, but the answer is yes, some husbands are some things, while others are different.
Q: "& is it ok for a wife to get so excited . . . that her lover is about to make love to her right there?"
A: Absolutely not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No explanation needed because you used the label "wife" to descibe yourself.
2006-12-16 06:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by camus_toe 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that because your husband works all those hours you should be thankful. Im glad my husband works im left at home all day by myself . Note the self part. I wouldnt do something like that. I seriously think you are a selfish *****. Your husband needs to be told and you need to be left. WIthout a roof over your head.
2006-12-16 05:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you have absolutely no respect for you or your husband. And obviously didn't take your wedding vows seriously. Your husband is working his butt off to provide what your taking advatanage of.
You are SO VERY SELFISH!!!! Instead of thinking ONLY about yourself, why don't you think about your husband and his feelings? Because what goes around comes around, and your husband will find out about your being unfaithful, and it's going to hurt him badly, and as much as I hate divorce, he's going to divorce you, and honestly YOU DESERVE IT!!!!
GROW UP and learn some respect and also some self respect. Because any wife who has even an ounce of respect for herself, wouldn't cheat on her husband.
It's people like you are why marriages don't last these days.
YOU MAKE ME SICK
2006-12-16 06:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Can only hope you get Breast cancer and aids after your husband dumps your skank *** and you die a slow painful death with out the true love of a good man sitting by your bedside holding your hand as you slip away from this world
2006-12-16 09:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you related to my ex? He married my sister and then had a child with a co-worker...Some are sicker than others. Get a divorce so that your husband can find a real wife.
2006-12-16 06:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋