My birthday is tomorrow and i'm so depressed. It always happens to me every year. I look forward to my birthday all year, and when it comes i'm super down. Not only that, but tomorrow is my 21st birthday and i'm having a super huge party tonight and still I feel down. I wonder why? Any thoughts?
2006-12-16 04:39:24 · 8 answers · asked by Jaymi C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
I don't know why...maybe u realize that another year has passed.
All I can say is HAPPY BIRTHDAY ! Cheer up....think of all those presants...
2006-12-16 04:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Λиδѓεy™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a birthday so close to Christmas sometimes is
depressing because there is so much going on at that time/and you are having the normal year older feeling.
You will be fine by tonight especially when your friends show you
how much they love and care about you. friends can always make
you feel better.
Happy Birthday
2006-12-16 04:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked forward to my 21st birthday so I could vote. this is a milestone as now you are an adult. congratulations and Happy Birthday.
2006-12-16 04:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful for your family and friends that are throwing your party. Many people don't even get a party. Maybe by looking forward to it so much, you create unrealistic expectations for yourself. Then when the day comes, you're disppointed.
2006-12-16 04:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by crazydave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much emphasis and enormity are you putting on throughout the year for this one point in time?
You need to stop focusing on "your" day so much throughout, and try to focus on other things throughout the year.
I rarely focus on my birthday until about a month or 2, because it becomes inevitable. But I try to find other things to involve my time in, to give of myself, because then, when it comes to "me" time, I feel I have earned some of the attention, by having given so much of myself throughout the year.
Volunteer with some charity work, or church work. Focus on things other than yourself.
Try to plant seeds of kindness, love, and other such positive things, and as that grows around you, you will find yourself less depressed about yourself.
2006-12-16 04:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by raydeeo_face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's the weather. Get some ginseing and some B vitamins and hurry up and get over it. You're the center of an entire party. Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!
2006-12-16 04:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy and thankful! A lot of people in deprived, underdeveloped areas in the world don't see their 21st birthday, so be joyful.
Plus you can drink. ;)
2006-12-16 04:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Firewheel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its have a happy birthday, not sad birthday
so i say to you " Im happy for you, why arent you happy-maybe because you know deep down inside your happy
2006-12-16 04:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by See ya later aligator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋