He wants to introduce me to his exes!!!
I got really hurt...
2006-12-16 04:06:27 · 16 answers · asked by adorable 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Maybe he does care, but on his own way, just let him now how you feel about, how it would hurt you, he'll understand. Maybe he is just trying to show you that all of those ex's are on his past, or maybe is his way of telling the others "this one is occupied, don't call me anymore". Give him a chance, give chance to yourself.
2006-12-17 07:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Is he making plans for you meet his exes, like for dinner or something? If that's the case then that's is pretty messed up and you might need to have a talk with him. But if you two just happen to run into one of his exes and he introduces you to them, it's probably because it makes him feel good to show someone that he used to date that he has a beautiful woman on his arm NOW. If that's the case then you should take it as a compliment that he wants to show you off.
2006-12-16 04:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first ex-husband is one of my best friends now, and I talk to him whenever I have a problem, he does the same with me... I haven't introduced anyone to him, but that's because everyone that knows me knows him...
My current boyfriend actually met my second ex-husband... and they immediately bonded... they were talking about me and my bad habits and comparing notes...it was weird, but I figured that there was nothing wrong with them meeting...if they wanted to (I did not introduce them, they did it on their own) besides they were both a part of my life (at the time)... and that way, everything was out in the open..
My point is... it may not be as weird as you think... he just may want to make sure that you have someone to ask your questions about him to make sure he is the one for you... he obviously isn't afraid of his past... in a way, that is a good thing. (Now, if he were hiding them from you, there would be a question in here... "what does he have to hide", right?). I think your female brain is just over-analyzing everything like it is supposed to.
Why not just sit him down and tell him that this is freaking you out and you would like to know why he wants you to meet them.... and be ready for anything for an answer.
2006-12-16 04:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by guudkarma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man stops thinking he stops feeling. French Proverb
The most beautiful things in the universe are the starry heavens above us and the feeling of duty within us. Indian Proverb
My answer is clear enough!!
^_^
2006-12-16 04:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by RNM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you got really hurt. I would have felt the same way. If you think he's worth it, try to get over this. Just say you don't want to meet them. But try to think, that maybe, in his own way, he tried to compliment you. Maybe he thinks you're much better than all of them, and he wants to show you off.
I'm not defending him, i just think it's possible for him to think that, because guys have funny weird ways of complimenting their girlfriends.
2006-12-16 04:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by broscutza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a double edged sword to me. One he "could be" trying to show his exes what they are missing.You, being the LUCKY GIRL. The other he "could" be trying to show you your competition.Either way, it sounds like a control tactic.
If you really care for this guy, tell him you would rather meet his family, and see his reaction.
I could be very wrong. You have the right to say no.
2006-12-16 04:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you guys need to sit down and TALK.
I know guys dread it when their girlfriends say "We need to talk" but what the heck.
Throw it all out and tell him straight in the face. Ask him what's his purpose of doing that and that you don't feel comfortable meeting them.
Just be controlled and patient and not defensive.
2006-12-16 04:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by xxon_23 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are special people in his life and it's his way of showing you that you are special to him too. You may want to ask him what he was thinking. Or take it as a compliment.
2006-12-16 04:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by Dorkboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to find a man who cares about you, and not his exes.
Good luck dear, and have a very Merry Christmas.
2006-12-16 04:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand.. I guess you could look at it this way.. he is showing them that he loves YOU and he is moving on, I dont think you should be hurt. I think that he is really saying he loves you.. I think that this is one way to look at it.
2006-12-16 04:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋