2006-12-16 03:52:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leave if she doesn't have remorse she'll probley keep doing it
2006-12-16 03:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line and I know it will hurt...... if she says this it is over no ifs ands or buts. To not even say things were screwed up and maybe it wasn't the best thing to do whatever the reason? This negates every tenant of a marriage and shows not a shred of respect or regard for you. She is saying she hates you and is well saying she just doesn't give a wit. Its time to go my friend. Now once you leave she may realize that it is she who messed up... actually garunteed. This will be the only way to put the ball in her court. Odds are though once yoou leave you will see things in a new light and realize that you can and will find someone who would never think to say "I don't care". I did. Good luck to you!
2006-12-16 05:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN-- I've been with my husband for 14 years. We have an excellent relationship. I met another guy and sparks flew, after about a year or more of all kinds of things (mostly lust) built up between us I gave in to my desires and slept with him. I didn't cheat or lie. My husband knew how I felt about this guy, so when I finally slept with him I told my husband where I was and what I was doing. I have No regrets about what I did. I don't feel guilty because I didn't lie. I LOVE my husband more than anything else. Yes I did screw another man, but it was just sex, he's my friend and everything but that's it. I guess it all comes down to honesty. If you can't be honest with yourself or honest with those you whom love the most, then ultimately you pay the price in the end. Look you and your wife need to have a serious heart to heart. Why did she cheat on you? Does she still want to be married to you? Was this a one time thing? Be honest with each other. If you know or feel she isn't being truth full then you should seriously consider your future together. Cheating can be a ONE time thing. Unfortunately lying is usually a life long habit.
2006-12-16 05:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Troublejunction 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
having no remorse or no regrets means you dont care, you did something and it happened and too bad if someone doesnt like it.When a person messes up in a relationship, and they truly care, they will have remorse because they put the other person's feelings into consideration and realize what they did was wrong and will be able to humbly admit their mistake.
2006-12-16 03:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say, but she will do it again. Why wouldn't she. If she can get away with it (if you go back with her) AND she doesn't have a guilty conscious or remorse she most likely will do it given the opportunity.
2006-12-16 04:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my maybe u should just leave if she does not have any remorse u do not want to be walked all over u and she does not even care that u are hurting and man maybe u should do a eye for a eye and a tooth for a tooth let her catch u havin great sex with a hot girl not a hooker and wear a condom
2006-12-16 03:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should take it that she has little or no respect for you! unless it is payback for an affair you have had,,,either way the two of you need to talk about where this marriage is heading because it isnt healthy at the minute.
2006-12-16 04:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she enjoyed it and doesn't feel guilty for hurting you. I agree with the people who said leave her. She proably doesn't love you anymore and unless she was truly sorry for cheating on you but it sounds like she's not then she'll keep doing it so your best choice would be to divorce her and move on.
2006-12-16 04:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! I went through the same thing. Leave her a$$ pronto! It's tough and you'll be pissed but you'll be happier for it I promise. Cut all ties, there's no sense in beating a dead horse!
2006-12-16 04:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her, and leave her with nothing! If the guy is married, and you know who he is, pay a visit to his wife, and update her on her husband's activities.
2006-12-16 04:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sentinel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overall consensus,
she WILL do it again and only cares for herself.
Sorry for this news but it's time to start thinking about
yourself and how to move forward.
2006-12-16 03:57:15 · answer #11 · answered by danielromero60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋