2006-12-16 03:42:56 · 13 answers · asked by Chris P 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Ask yourself this question. Why do you?
2006-12-16 17:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have as strong of a sex drive as men do. Do you masturbate? If you do, then it is wrong to expect your wife not to. I know you probably feel that you know your wife's body inside and out, but your wife knows what feels best for her... when she's masturbating, she does not have to tell you go faster, slow down, touch me here, touch me like this... she just does it herself. Just because she chooses to masturbate, it does not mean that you are any less of a lover, so don't take it to heart. If it really bothers you, ask her what she does and if it is something that you can do when you make love to her. Show her that you're interested in what pleasures her, maybe you could have a whole night of just figuring that out, while expecting nothing in return.
Just try not to take it to heart... it's only natural.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-16 09:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Buckwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps its convenience. No offense perhaps somethings lacking between the two of you. I masturbated for yrs with my ex hubby cause he just wasnt cutting it. He couldnt perform proper and his size was to be desired. Im not saying thats the case wih you. Perhaps, you need to ask her. I know now that Im happy with my new hubby i no longer need to masturbate. Perhaps, you should ask her what you could do different or make her stop doing that. Perhaps you need to spice things up. DInner, movies, theater, flowers, cards, gifts, etc. Surprize her with a musician at supper. I once rented a room at a restraunt that had a waterfall and pond inside. I had hired a quartet for background noise for our wedding anniversary. Perhaps mroe bondig times. Going for walks in the park, calls from work saying im thinking of u. My hubby and I rented a horse and carrage ride in the country side for an hr. sometimes women are lacking romance. Just a few ideas. Some men stop doing the things that they once did and women miss that. Its important to stay connected and be intimate and fee loved and wanted. anyway, I hope that this helps oyu and your wife. I truely wish you the best.
2006-12-16 04:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by shannon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is a good way of relieving the sexual tension that can build up over time, especially for people without partners or whose partners are not willing or available for sex. Masturbation also is a safe sexual alternative for people who wish to avoid pregnancy and the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases. It also is necessary when a man must give a semen sample for infertility testing or for sperm donation. When sexual dysfunction is present in an adult, masturbation may be prescribed by a sex therapist to allow a person to experience an orgasm (often in women) or to delay its arrival (often in men).
2006-12-16 08:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife masturbates instead of finding some other man to take care of her urges when you are not around. Maybe you should learn some new techniques so that you will more satisfy her, or at least do it more often.
"Your gonna fail marriage if you don't pass the oral."-Dan to Fred on Roseanne.
2006-12-19 10:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a woman can just about guarantee herself an orgasm and we can do it quicker too. Its also a selfish thing where we dont have to reciprocate 'favors'. Next time offer to lend a hand and make it all about her. It will probably lead to the best sex you have ever had.
2006-12-16 05:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Big red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend had a problem with me masturbating. It is a human desire. It has nothing to do with you
2006-12-16 03:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love to masturbate lol..
she knows what shes doing and likes how it feels.
maybe your not giving her what she wants or maybe shes just a horny woman lol
NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT lol
2006-12-16 03:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im masterbate alot in fact I masterbated like 47 times last month..lol But I only masterbate when I cant get it from my husband... Nothen wrong with it...
2006-12-16 03:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because maybe she likes how it feels or that you are not having enough Sex with her so she wants to have sex with herself. Or maybe she is just a fricken horny woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-16 04:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by ghshd h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋