why do girls give more attention to taller "bigger" guys?

Question

Isn't a man of any size still a man by heart? For example in the store I work at (which is a pretty big store) there are a couple of girls that work with me and 4 other guys, me and 2 other guys are 5'8" tall and below average looks the other two are 6'1" and 6'3" tall and above average looks, but the girls always talk to them more, when they go on coffee runs a coffee is only bought for them, not for me s. They are always laughing and talking to the big tall guys, but not us. It makes me feel worthless and angry towards those girls and is starting to make me feel like that towards all women. why are they like this favoritism?

Answer 1

It's a sad reality of life. Are you sure it's just because they are bigger than you. Do you think that maybe they are more out going? Smile more? Seem more approachable? And although I agree, it's whats on the inside that counts, more attractive people simply get more chances from others to find out what they are about. Unfortunately, looks are an everyday first impression. The better you look, the better your impression. On the other hand, who gives a SH*T about those girls? You should know that they're missing out on great conversation when they're not talking to you guys, right?

Answer 2

well, I'm find taller and / or stronger looking men more attractive because they look as if the could protect me, I like to feel safe when wrapped up in my big mans arms. I have dated smaller men, 3 that I can remember they were all about 5'3 and 130 pounds and there size didn't really bother me, but when I'm dating men that are 5'9 and 180 pounds I feel a little safer. It may not make %100 sense and I know it's what's on the inside that counts. I wouldn't pick a 6 foot jerk over a 4 foot sweet heart. But when I use to go out on the town looking for men I was drawn to the taller/stronger looking men. In the end I married a med sized guy 5'9 and 150 pounds, he's slim but has great strong muscley arms. He's also a sweet heart and a hard worker. I know he loves me and wants to take good care of me and keep me safe.

I know if your a smally guy thats not the answer you want but i thought I'd be honest and let you know what going though at least one womans head on this issue.

I hope you find someone to love you who appreciates all you wonderfull qualities. Not all girls are looking for mr big.

Answer 3

"This know also, that in the last days, perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, high minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; having a form of Godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away" (2 Timothy 3:1-5) This modern society in which we live has become very judgemental and lustful. You mentioned being short (for a guy) and having below average looks. As long as you let that discourage you, you never will find anyone attracted to you. There is someone for everyone. As most of the world has become exceedingly lustful, my advice is to look for a girl with an interest in a Christian religion. Religion teaches to not judge and frowns very severly on lustful tendencies before marriage. This, i feel, would put you on the same level as the jocks.

Answer 4

OK 4 1 thing if 1 woman makes u mad don`t turn down all the others. If u keep that up you`ll never have a girl.
i personally think i would want a guy just a bit taller than me. But some gals just wanna guy who is 2 feet taller.
If you want to talk to 1 of the girls than do it. or you could start talking 2 the taller guys 2. (2 get some advice.)

Answer 5

Instinct:

Subconsciously when a woman is looking for a potential mate, she is more attracted to men with these attributes, because her instinct tells her that their offspring will have a better chance of survival in the world, because of certain factors.

1. Good looking people make more money:
The offspring will make more money and have more friends if they are taller and have attractive features, rather than offspring that are smaller, uglier, and poor, the woman doesn't want her offspring to struggle, and the previous generations of this family (mother and father) will also be of good stock, and the chances of that person coming from a rich family is higher.

2. The Safety Instinct:
One aspect of it is the relationship between ego, DNA and genetics. A woman is complimented by obtaining a mate that is taller, has more attractive features, and has better genetics. Better DNA means less physical and psychological problems with that particular person and the offspring. He would be more well adjusted, mature, and functional. Anyone with good DNA will have opportunities for better education, because of the higher chances of more family money, and the increased factors of santiy. More family money, or the opportunity for the potential mate to make a higher income increases the chances of having a good home, good education, and a healthy, happy home life for potential offspring. It's really a safety instinct.

3. Authority and the comparison to the father:
The woman compares every man she meets to her father. This is normal, because the father is the male role model for the daughter. The daughter sees the father as handsome, successful, mature, and someone who provides her every need, and the daughter expects her potential mate to meet those expectations as much as possible.

4. Women love stuff:
Yes they do, they love the jewelry, the clothing, the cars, the nice home, and they love to be spoiled. If you think about the instinct to find a good mate as something the woman is not conscious she is doing, then you can come to the realization that when a woman knows she is going to be "provided for", and the man will do everything he can to make her happy, including buying her lots of stuff, then the same will be true for the offspring of that man, and that is what the woman wants. The woman wants the offspring to be provided for.

5. Good bedroom skills:
Even though woman won't admit it most of the time, they love a man who is in shape, very tall, good looking, and has good bedroom skills. This means a happier life with that man, better quality children, healthier children, happier children with no health problems, or psychological problems.

6. Role model:
We all know it takes a strong person to survive in today's society, so the woman would be looking for someone who has character, and is a good role model to the children.

Answer 6

When God created Man and Woman, he created them to meet the needs of one another. This is a basic instinctive action. Many women will instinctivly give attention to a bigger, taller men out of the need or desire for provision, security, fullfilment...etc.

Answer 7

in my girl opinion,i'll definitely say that man with a tall and bigger is more attractive than the shorty one. I dunno but guys like that I find them more appealing and definitely being around them makes me feel safe. But don't feel bad maybe there's something about them that make the girls find them more attractive. Maybe u're not a talkative person perhaps. Try 2 work something out. try to be nice with them and u'll find not all women like men with bigger body.

Answer 8

Women want to mate. They subconsciously look for great big lummoxes to pass BIG genes on to the babies. A woman will notice you and when she does, she will be worth spending time with. Because she will have moved beyond the initial mating urge and is looking for a companion.

I am 5'10" tall and considered attractive and my husband is a brilliant, bespectacled, intelligent and funny 5'7" tall.

Answer 9

Dear,
Maybe, it's not just based on your looks! I'll admit that a taller man makes me feel secure somehow but, I'm married to a 5'8" man! I fell for his charm and personality .....not looks!
Be more confident!

Answer 10

Who says they do? I pay attention to any guy That looks good or is funny or charming despite his size. Maybe those specific girls are just attracted to taller guys...or maybe it has nothing to do with their tallness or their looks.