just wanted too now.
2006-12-16 03:40:08 · 23 answers · asked by cilia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, but I want to pay back my student loans and save enough for a 20% on a home mortgage first. That way I can avoid bringing the pain of debt into the relationship. I am 26 now. Once I finish graduate school, I believe I can dispatch with my loans within two years of extremely frugal living. That brings me to about 29 when I am eligible for marriage.
Marriage is not only about love. It's also a sort of economic relationship and I want to be able to honor and cherish my future wife and not bring in financial heartache.
2006-12-16 04:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did get married i was 28 years old and panicked because all my friends were married with kids and i desparately wanted the same. Needless to say it didn't last a year, so am divorced now. I have been dating someone for a year and he loves my son and I, so probably might get married again. What i'm saying is, age isn't always the best factor to go by, cause we can be impulsive at any age. But i'm not against marriage just cause it didn't work out the first time. Anyways, to answer your question, i always wanted to get married, since i was younger so my advice is take it slow and careful!!
2006-12-16 11:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by latinsmama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know an exact age but before 30. I want to make sure the guy I'm getting married to is the right one that way divorce and all that stuff won't be a problem. I want to be happy with this guy so if it takes a while then so be it.
2006-12-16 11:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by tia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wrong question for me. I was married for the first time at 19. I have had three failed marriages and wish that I had made better choices for myself. I feel that a person should be mature and self supportive before they consider being with someone for the rest of their lives. It is such a huge commitment that most people take so lightly anymore. They go into it with the idea that if it doesn't work out, then just file for divorce. Years and years ago, people dealt with things so much better and the institute of marriage was sacred. People didn't just divorce over petty things like lack of sex or understanding. They worked these things out or just accepted them. There is no set age, I believe for getting married. Just when one knows that they are able to take care of themselves and want to enrich their lives by adding someone special to it.
2006-12-16 11:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time i was 18 and that was way to young but made it through 23 years. I think if I get married again my age would be oh 48 to 50 somewhere in that bracket
2006-12-16 13:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do want to get married toa guy that will commit to me and my future children. Marriage is a big decision so I will wait til I'm done with college and I am about 27-29.
2006-12-16 11:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by thefutureisnow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i definately do want to get married but with the number of divorces increasing i wil definately not rush into it i have to be totally sure about the guy i believe in long term companionship and then finally get maried when i am 27 or 28
2006-12-16 12:05:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did........and now I see it was way too young. I was 21 and didn't know what happiness meant until i realized that I was in a unhappy Marriage. So....my advice, make sure your old enough to understand your own feelings and mature enough to know if your happy and in love before you decide to get married.
2006-12-16 11:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes during my late twenties early thirties. I want to give myself some time to see the world before I settle down.
2006-12-16 11:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by JessicaP 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 39 ..and i will never get married ...ive been with the same girl 14 years and still i wont get married
2006-12-16 12:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋