We thought it was lung cancer, until the PET scan said, brain cancer was more important. I didn't know. He sent me an email after he did 3 weeks of full brain radiation that can only be done once. He never told me till after, and I was the one taking him to all of the diagnosis appointments. He's 58, non-smoker, always worked, divorced, no children. He has a heart of gold. Now he says he does not want to see me because what's the point. I think he's trying to spare me and does not want to see me cry. I said that's what friends do. We stand by each other, no matter what. Shall I stay away when he says he's got hospital workers to take him back and forth? Shall I stay away when he says I can't come over? I finally just went at 9:45 a.m. driving an hour+ to his home, and called and knocked until he opened the door. So different, lost most of his hair and skin badly burned. I still smiled. Please send your prayers - and ask your relatives around the world to pray,TY GOD bless
2006-12-16
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