i lost my baby?

Question

i lost my baby 10 months ego, ever since then i have been trying 4 another one but the baby is not coming, i went 2 hospital 2 check if there is anything wrong with me de doctors keep on telling me that nothing is wrong with me im tired of waiting i really want my own baby, people has started asking me questions, pls do anyone know any drug or anything i can take dat will help me fast.

Answer 1

I am so sorry that you lost your baby. God bless you !!!

Answer 2

The best way to get pregnant is to chart your cycle so you know when you are most fertile.

Take and recond your temperature evrry morning when you wake up. It will rise when you ovulate (Around the middle of your cycle) and will stay higher until your next period. Once released your egg remains vaible for fertilisation for just 12-24 hours.

Keep an eye on your mucus too. It will become stretchy like egg white as you approach ovulation. Sperm can survive for up to 5 days in this most fertile mucus.

I wouldn't waste money buying OPK's as your body can tell you for free when you are ovulating! When trying to conceve it is recommended that you have intercourse every other day during the week before you ovulate and then for a day or two after.

I am so sorry that you lost your baby. I have had two miscarriages and know exactly how painful this is. Don't lose hope though, you will be blessed with another child.

There is a charity called LIFE UK which runs a very sucessful fertility programme that I think you should check out too.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Come on babe calm down,You will get your baby when you have stopped grieving for the one that you lost,You know that you are able to conceive as you have had a pregnancy before,And it will happen again when the time is right.I promise,Just take a break from worrying as to why you have not gotten pregnant yet,and concentrate on the coming Christmas and New year.I,m sure that you will be back on questions in the new year telling us all that you are pregnant.All the best to you my darling your new year is going to be great.xxx

Answer 4

I was told I was infertile and prescribed a drug called Clomid. It is given to sterile women trying for a baby, but carries the risk of multiple birth. I had a lively little baby girl after taking it, followed by a boy. A rea; 'miracle' drug!

Answer 5

If your period is bang on date and you know the day you are going to get it each month, then you should know that 14 days before your period arrives is when you ovulate. So 3 days before the day you ovulate, start trying every alternate day (trying everyday is not going to help, your guy needs time for sperm build up and whatever he has sent inside of you will stay alive in the meantime). Make sure to have a soft (yet supportive) pillow below your hip to tilt you a little before doing 'it'. Please go to sleep that way for a little amount of time before you remove the pillow and settle into the night. Relax and PLEASE think of the action happening and enjoy it. The more you stress out, the more upsetting things get. Hope things work out well :-)

Answer 6

Keep trying you will conceive again at the right time, I have a friend who lost her baby in June and now she is pregnant again, why not try to have sex on the day 10,13, i think it may work, my friend did that and she is pregnant again

Answer 7

You could maybe try Vitex....its herbal.

Also you need to....

Start temping in the mornings this site tells you how to do it
http://www.storknet.com/cubbies/preconception/bbt.htm

then use this site to chart it
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/

This site is a forum where girls can chat about TTC......Please look at this one they can be so helpful
www.justmommies.com

Checking cervical mucus can tell you when your fertile...here's the site for that
http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/cervical-mucus.html

Checking your cervix. You need to scroll down some cause the first part we have covered already
http://www.womenshealthlondon.org.uk/leaflets/cycle/cyclechanges.html

Using ovulation predictor kits (these can get expensive....(I recommend ordering them in bulk on line or using the dollar tree)

I also recommend this book
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0060937645/bookstorenow57-20

If you have a 28 day cycle then you are likely to ovulate around the 14th day after your period. You would want to have sex before during and after this time! Have sex every other day cause everyday will lower his sperm count!

Answer 8

YOU WILL BE PREGNANT SOON SO DON'T WORRYJUST PRAY AND EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OK.I WAS TRYING TO CONCEIVE FOR 1 YEAR,FINALLY I GOT PREGNANT BUT SOMETHING WENT WRONG AND I LOST THE BABY I WAS VERY SAD BUT I PRAYED AND I KNOW I WILL GET PREGNANT AGAIN I TRUST GOD YOU SHOULD DO THE SAME THING.GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 9

i feel for you i lost 2 babies before i got my little boy you could change your diet loose some weight stop smoking or drinking if you already done these things its just a matter of time just have fun trying all good things come to those who wait

Answer 10

I'm so sorry u lost ur baby. u should go see a better doctor that specializes in pregnancy. Take it easy, ur just stressing too much.

Answer 11

if nothing is wrong, then you dont need drugs,,,, i suggest trying to relax, focus on other things, and give it a year to a year and half,,, i know thats hard to do, but worry and nervousness will not help, in fact it can make you so tense it interferes with your cycle,,,,,
if within two years you havent conceived, see a specialist