i need to know how can i have a strong heart to manage the hurt of a breakup without hate and revenge. i just want the person who hurt me be put into oblivion and i want a new love to emerge far far different from the past loves i have.
2006-12-16 00:56:58 · 5 answers · asked by tomi 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
hate to counter hurt is the easiest way out, just consider it, other than that means to attain arrogance around that person is a really easy means to get over the hurt.
2006-12-16 01:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by a50062040 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 20:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Philip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no fast way for it, if you get over it that fast it means you didn't love the person that much to begin with. It doesn't matter if they hurt you or not, if you love someone you will hurt when you break up with them or they break up with you. Just deal with it and give it time.
2006-12-16 01:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Carole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the Judgment, Christ will come to judge. We have no right to judge anyone for "all have sinned and fall short of the Glory of GOD". Spend your time reading and studying the BIBLE. GOD is there. He can help in this process. I am a Christian and I have had similar feelings. SIN is at the door. Do not fall into Satan's trap! We have a forgiving GOD who sent HIS only Begotten SON so that we would have an opportunity to be forgiven and be in heaven with HIM. Find a group of friends and join in studying the BIBLE. You will be glad that you did. Have a great holiday season with friends and family.
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2006-12-16 01:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think what you can do is to accept that you are hurt. face the stage where in you cry, cry and cry. it is normal. everyone faces that stage. where in you cry for the hurt of breaking up, you cry for the one you love. it is normal. you cannot move on very fast if you weren't able to accept your situation right now. ACCEPTING and FACING you situation is very important. i suggest that you talk to your friends. dont be shy to share it. let it out. find someone who will listen and never get tired of listening to your story. have a lot of things to do. keep yourself busy. maybe you should also ask yourself what to do. when to do it. what are your gains and what are the meanings you derived from your experience. i hope i was able to help you.
2006-12-16 01:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋