I've started to have a good chat on-line. Both didn't bother asking or telling about marriage status. Now, we are both really interest with each other. How can I tell her about this. Yes, I'm starting divorce papers in about a month. I'm deeply fond of her!. As she is of me. What can I do and not to really hurt her? Please.
2006-12-16 00:56:46 · 10 answers · asked by so-co 1 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
o0o0hh..that's hard. filipina women are a bit emotional so you have to be very careful about that.but of course you still have to tell her everything and see how she reacts about it.just tell her directly and explain properly. she should be glad because you're not hiding anything from here and from there, she could see that your intentions towards her are good.
and one more thing, no matter how you say it, or in any manner you intend to let her know the truth, still it would hurt her so just go..tell her.
2006-12-16 02:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by warrior is a child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is are you really going to get a divorce or are you just tagging this Pinay along for the ride? Are you even separated from your wife or do you two still live in the same house? If your serious about this Pinay then start the divorce proceedings right away, not 6 months from now. This means retaining a lawyer, and filing the divorce papers with the court. When you've done this then you can tell this Pinay the truth. Otherwise your just wasting her time, and its best to let her go so she can find happiness with someone else. You may not like my answer, but if you really care for this Pinay then care enough about her to let her go if you have no real intention of divorce from your wife.
2006-12-16 10:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Brian F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her anything at all. If she finds out that you were married when you started flirting with her she won' ever trust you again. If you are sincere about getting divorced then hurry up and get it done so you will not be married when you get together with the Philippine woman. The truth may cost you the relationship. Next time be honest in the first place!
2006-12-16 09:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pinay's are the most sensitive and emotional humans I have ever came across. You dont need to play mind games with them, you might destroy them emotionaly for a long time to come. I cant tell if you are being truthfull about being with this Filipina woman after divorcing your wife fow whatever reason you have. Be honest to yourself and to others. You lied to her by not telling her you were not married and she might forgive you. But u have to be honest from now on and show her that u really do care for her and love her. You go visit her right after your divorce is final.
2006-12-20 04:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a married man, is a big NO to a Filipino woman. All that the Filipina want is to be the only woman in your life. Tell her when you have divorce papers in your hand. She will understand later.
2006-12-16 21:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by junior 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a a sensitive issue, are you really sure you want to divorce your wife? Or is it because of the new woman in your life? If its the 2nd one then its WRONG.
Another thing, are you sure that this online woman can be trusted? Is she really telling you the truth? How sure are you?
2006-12-16 14:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Keepingmycool 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth.. by the way there is no divorce in the Philippines..
2006-12-17 02:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh don't worry. she's probably going through the same process as you! actually, probably not, since divorce is not allowed in that country. and how can you grow 'fond' of someone over the internet??? hehehe....
2006-12-16 09:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by That's A Lot of Nonsense 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
how dare you do that to your wife!!! There's nothing you can do. You will still hurt her no matter what. Well, what did you get married for? You go to hell!!
2006-12-20 00:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by katherin evans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST.
2006-12-16 22:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by red_hac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋