should i stop or keep going till' the end and then stop and take a really long shower... with her duh ! lol
2006-12-16 00:30:24 · 17 answers · asked by Da 1 N only 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
She may not bleed at all, and if she does, it will only be a little bit.
If she tells you to stop, then you have to stop. But otherwise no, keep going, and be as gentle and sensitive as you know how.
It's her first time and it's pretty important, as she will remember it forever, so try to make it as good as possible. Make sure she's properly aroused and lubricated, and make her feel special.
A shower together would be a nice idea.
2006-12-16 15:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to launch a tirade against you for your references to having sex with a virgin as if she was just some piece of meat to be used to make Mr. Happy happy, but I guess that's the way most teenage boys act.
I would suggest taking some care. Normally the bleeding is minor and the pain is minor. But sometimes, when the hymen is especially strong, the rip can occur in the wall of the vagina. Bleeding is quite heavy and can last days. I have first hand experience. Unusual, according to the doctor, but not unheard of.
Back to the piece of meat issue. Girls frequently romanticize the first time. Even if you are the average schmuck teenage boy who just wants the conquest, for her feelings you should try to make it special; something that will make her feel like you valued her feelings.
And like the others here have said, if she decides to stop, you should stop.
2006-12-16 11:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol ok im a virgin and if i saw my boyfriend write something like this on a site i wouldnt be too happy. anywayz she probably wont bleed and if she does it wont be alot. BUT make sure she wants to have sex bc if she doesnt want to have sex then dont pressure her bc then it would make it even more uncomfortable for her. make sure she knows that if she wants u to stop then u'll stop. If she bleeds and doesnt say anything keep going but if she says something STOP or else there could be serious damage. As for taking a long shower after...go right ahead. lol
2006-12-16 10:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Baby_G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shes not going to bleed like THAT now. I took a girls virginity once she didnt really bleed a lot. Just keep on dont stop.
2006-12-16 15:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are asking your question here, I assume you're a teenager. So, the answer is, you shouldn't have sex with her.
First, there is ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy, no matter what birth control you might use. So, you risk her getting pregnant. You're not ready to support the child that would be born, and the child would suffer from not having an intact home with mother and father.
Second, some day she will be someone's wife. The man that is willing to commit to spend his life with her is the one that deserves to be her first.
You wont agree, but give it some thought.
2006-12-16 14:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jonas_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every girl bleeds the first time. If she is very athletic, there is a decreased chance of bleeding. If you're concerned about mess, put a blanket underneath. If the concern is her comfort- bleeding does not always equal pain. Ask her if she's okay- let her set the pace.
2006-12-16 09:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by imjustasteph 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might not bleed. Not all virgins have a hymen. Some girls are born without one, some get broken from sports, from tampons, from masturbation. Just listen to what she needs. Stop if she asks. And as for the amount of blood that you're imagining...it won't be anything like that.
2006-12-16 08:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ok not all girls bleed their first time. It depends on the girl. But I'd say keep going.
2006-12-16 10:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make sure she is even ready to have sex do not pressure her into it. She will know when she is ready for you. If the only reason you are with her is for sex then leave her alone. If you really care for her let her tell you when she is ready after all its her special time too.
2006-12-16 08:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by c_schreel 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
FIRST ASK IF SHE REALLY WANTS 2 HAVE SEX AND IF U DO IT, B GENTLE AND ASK HER HOW SHE FEELS, DON`T WORRY ABOUT THE BLEEDING IT`S NOT LIKE SHE`S GONNA BLEED A LITTER, IT`S JUST A LITTLE IF SHE BLEEDS CUZ SOME DON`T BLEED.
GOOD LUCK!!
AND ENJOY YOURSELVES.
2006-12-16 09:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by CHIKA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋