2006-12-16 00:02:09 · 19 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It should be for life and if you consider it a load, thn you have problems in the marriage that need sorting out. When you marry it is until death do us part, not just until we get fed up.
Try to resolve any issues in the marriage by talking, one has to work at their marriage every day of their life if they wish to make it work
2006-12-16 11:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear, It is just the mindset, If you are seriously asking this. It is load but a load which you will love to bear your whole life. You see does not it look good to fall in love with a girl and do what ever you can for her little desire. It is the only when you did not find the match of your thinking with her but i say no one in this world have got the perfect match, To be with someone needs your cooperation only, Thats it . If you think it as a load you may be thinking of your self only not for all of your family. Just think once you are not the one only and it will give you pleasure and suddenly you find your life is over and where was the load. This is the life dear so be chearfull and fell in love get married , never think of load anymore. Hope this may help you. Contact if any doubt me.
2006-12-16 08:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by uday m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a beautiful saying....Love is blind but marriage is an eye opener......yes.....marriage is a load which a husband and wife have to carry throughout their entire life......thats why the word support comes into picture in a relationship....because of the load.....
2006-12-16 08:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by mr_BIG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not sure I understand your question but, here goes...
Just because you marry someone it doesn't mean you'll be stuck with them for your whole life. If you don't want to be with them you shouldn't marry them in the first place, but other things can always happen. If divorce does occur, then obviously, you're free from this person... to a certain extent. If you have kids, then you most likely will have certain ties to them for the rest of your life, or, until your children are adults.
Then there's always the annoying stuff... finances, ongoing lawsuits.. it can get annoying.. So if you're unsure.. DONT DO IT! :-) Good luck!
2006-12-16 08:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by erica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is not a easy road always ,depends on how strong your love is ,and if its real love you get Thur the rough times together ,But if you already are thinking oh this is forever then most likely you need more time ,because it is forever and it gets rough at times ,be very sure that you are ready to stay true to the only one woman ,best to you
2006-12-16 08:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is never a load for life. every body needs a companion & after marriage ur life partner can satisfy u in all the relatinship, like friend,guide, sis/broetc....
2006-12-16 10:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Reshu 18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met my husband while serving in the u.s army. we married after 3 months of knowing one another and are making our way to our 1 year anniversary. he is currently deployed in iraq. the reason why i'm adding that is to paint a picture of marriage. it's hard work that both people must work at. it's not easy, but it is what you make it. right now, for me, it is hard because i'm trying to deal with things here on the homefront while my husband is overseas and in danger. but, our love for one another is strong. life tests you. especially when in love and married. marriage is not about who's right or who's wrong. it's about a future with the person you hold dear in your heart. if you marry someone for reasons other than love, god save you because you will end up lonely. sometime love isn't enough in a marriage. you must both compromise for your goals. it doesn't mean making sacrifices to keep the other happy. if it is, it's wrong. you can maintain a sense of independence while married as well. but, as i stated before, it's going towards that same goal and future you both have. if you want a family, you must prepare. this mean working. don't slack off and let the other person work to make up for what you aren't doing. and don't expect them to sit on their butts either. that's not putting effort towards your goals. people get married because they love one another, but also because they want to have a future together. beings i have no children, i can't really tell you much, but from what i see, having children takes a lot of hard work as well. you're maintaining your relationship with your spouse as well as your children. your family is top priority and you must do what you can do to keep them going.
2006-12-16 09:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A MAN BECOME COMPLETE AFTER THE MARRIAGE ONLY. LIFE HAVE TARGETS IN FRONT OF YOU LIKE FOLLOWING:-
1. TAKE EDUCTION AND MAKE CAREER
2. MAKE LOVE AND ENJOY
3. DO MARRIAGE AND HAVE FAMILY
4. GIVE THEM EDUCATION TO KIDS
5. NOW LET THEM ENJOY AND YOU SEE WHOLE WORLD WITH YOUR PARTNER.
2006-12-16 08:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every coin ahs two side. The marriage is not exceptional. Try to get best of it.
2006-12-16 10:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by mousumiab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!Loads of Love.....
2006-12-16 08:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by Munzir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋