i get so depressed cos i want to be young. i hate parties and alcohol but thats all anyone does, plus my friends are rejecting me. i want life to be good again and i want my best friend back who lives accross the country. what do i do, i cant go back in time
2006-12-15 23:15:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Take life as it comes trust me it will get better. I'm 24 and at times I wish I could have gone back but now I've learned so much.
2006-12-15 23:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
When you are in your 30's and 40's you are going to realize that 15 and 13 are almost the same age.
If all that any one does around you is party and drink then you NEED to find new friends.
Does your friend that lives across the country have email.? Or yahoo or msn chat. You could keep in contact with them that way. I had a friend that lived 3 thousand miles away and I talk to them all the time and always been involved in her's and her family life.
Its hard to understand that sometimes at 15, friends will reject you. It doesn t make it any easier but it does happen.
Go to some new places and make some new friends. You never know, they might be better friends.
2006-12-15 23:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a child and I guess at 13 your life was very nice.My life was nice either.Now it's changing.That's how life goes - if life doesn't change,we don't grow(physically and psychically) and if we don't grow,we don't live complete(of full value).
I'll try to help you another way.Imagine your life in 7 years.You will grow up,make new friends,have a boyfriend,later when you are above 20,you will marry the guy you love and have a sweet baby.And the life doesn't stop here - it just begins here!The life in your own family will be so happy and you will be one beautiful woman,married a beautiful man who loves you,having 1-2 or more beautiful children who will love you and the life would be so happy!
I draw one perfect picture of future.It won't be perfect - it will be the way you make it to be.And you can continue doing your interests - sport,music or anything you like to do.Now you are in one ideal condition to make your life the way you want it to be.You have your parents to care for you and in the same time you try new things and see what you like to do and how.
I don't make you follow the way I do everything - you have to find your way.I'll just mention what do I do and give ideas probably.I know in a few years I'll live in another country but I'm not sure which of the two I have the choice to go to will be.I made another e-mail address where I send music(the songs I like most) in order to have them with me one day when I go to the other country without my home computer.Since I was 10 I read books on how to discipline children(because that's one of my interests and I like reading about that).I also imagine what my job will be when I grow up and already think what education to have(my parents leave me choose what I want to do).I have my boyfriend but of course I know we won't be together all life(at 15 it's like that) but I enjoy every minute spend with him and we are happy together.Even though I don't have many friends from school(I have more from the neighbourhood) I enjoy school because I know these things I study there will one day be useful for me.
I know the age of 15 isn't easy but trust me - the feeling that everyone ignores you will pass soon,it's just a stage.Now I wish you good luck and I know no matter how difficult it is you will cope with growing up:)
2006-12-15 23:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by Livia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still young. Just keep living your life and dont dwell on things that which can not be changed.
Im only 22 and have a huge fear of death but I wouldnt wish to be any younger again because I would miss out on all the things that have happened in the past few years.
If there real friends they wont reject you. I only have 1 real friend left from when I was your age. So called friends come and go but the real friends stick by your side no matter what.
2006-12-15 23:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Nick_L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't go back. But you can move forward, and sometimes that means leaving old things or people behind. If your friends are rejecting you and making you feel bad than they aren't really your friends.
Spend a little time getting to know who you really are and what you really want. Don't base that on other people but base it on yourself. When we feel good about ourselves good people are drawn to us.
You will make new friends, people that like you and accept you for who you really are. These are not just empty words either. These are the things that rescued me out of a 14 year depression and made it possible for me to find the happiness I've found in my life. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-15 23:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so afraid you're not even old yet!!!! If your friends reject you then stop calling them your friends because they are not. If alcohol and parties is what you are worried about then don't. Live above the influnce of stupid $hit because thats what it is. You don't have to do everything that everybody else is doing and if you stand up for what you believe in then that automatically makes you better than those idiots will ever be. Sweetie make new friends that will except you for nothing mre or less because its what you deserve.
2006-12-15 23:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya,,,, I think what you mean is that you don't like the adult world, I don't either, and I'm 40.Stay young at heart. keep your appreciation of the pure and truly good things in life, and stay away from the bad things. this way you will find good friends and will stay young all your life.
2006-12-15 23:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think about being young, being in your high-teens is good, it doesn't always mean you're going to become crazy and start going to parties, you can always stay the same, it's your choice...
and about your friend, try setting certain dates or days when you 2 cane see each other and visit each other, take turns on visiting
2006-12-15 23:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Valencianista 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 year olds arent supposed to party and drink so dont do that focus on school and life will get better 4 u, at least school wise.....
2006-12-15 23:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by CBroxmysox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,.. your worried about this already??? I would try to meet other friends that you know doesnt party like that. It sounds like you really miss your friend that moved. Get in touch with her,.. it might help just to be able to talk to her.
2006-12-15 23:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by pebbles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋