WE WERE ABANDONED AND NO GET CHILD SUPPORT FRO OM MY HUSBAND FOR MY KIDS.I FEEL SAD BECAUSE I STILL LOVE HIM BUT I HAVE TO SAY GUDBYE TO HIM AND LEAVE NO ACCEPTED HIM.HIS A LIER AND HAVE GIRLS AND LIVE IN PARTNER IN STATES.WERE HERE IN THE PHILIPINES WITH MY KIDS.HE WORKED THERE.I FEEL HURT BCAUSE I LOVED HIM AND GOODWIFE.BUT HE DOESNT GIVE SUPPORT FINANCIALLY.I DONT HAVE WORKED RIGHT NOW BECAUSE IM A FULL HOUSEWIFE THE TIME HE LEFT US I DONT HAVE JOB.I CANT DO ANY ACTION CAUSE IN MY COUNTRY YOU SHOULD MONEY TO FIGHT FOR WHAT YOU WANT AND IF YOU WILL GO IN SOME FREE SERVICE LIKE ATTY THEY DONT TAKE IT SERIOUSLY BECAUSE ITS FREE AND ITS MAKING NONSENSE.I HURT REALLY AFTER BECAUSE I TRUSTED HIM LOVED HIMIN MY WHOLE LIFE BUT THIS IS WHAT I GOT.I STIL HAVE FAMILY THAT HELPING ME RIGHT NOW FOR THE EXPENSES OF MY KIDS TILL I GET THE JOB.I FEEL DEPRESED BECAUSE HE DOESNT GIVE MONEY AND I HAVE TO BEG HIM FIRST BEFORE HE WILL SEND MONEY.HIS MOTHER TOLERATE HIM AND LEAVE US LIKE THAT.IM NOT RICH
2006-12-15 22:57:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IM SORRY ABOUT MY ENGLISH.im not rih person.if it happend to you what would you do?pls give me some motivation sometimes i cant help it to cry?what if you were abandoned and no child support get from your spouse?and you still hurting because you still love him?thanks..
2006-12-15 23:12:39 · update #1
BILLY the kid: HIS NOT AMERICAN,HIS A FILIPINO,HIS FAMILY MIGRATE IN STATE WHEN THEY ARE YOUNG...
2006-12-15 23:26:32 · update #2
STOP SHOUTING AT ME!!!!!! YOU ARE THE ONE THAT GOT MARRIED TO HIM AND HAD HIS KIDS. IT'S JUST AS MUCH YOUR FAULT AS IT IS HIS. ACCEPT SOME RESPONSIBILITY. NEXT TIME, BE SURE YOU CHOOSE A GOOD MAN WHO WILL ACTUALLY PAY CHILD SUPPORT WHEN HE LEAVES YOU.
2006-12-15 23:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you two were actually married or not, but you should look into laws and the government to make sure that he is not breaking the law by not paying you child support. In the meantime, work on getting yourself more self supportive and ket him go. If you can find away to bring some money in and take care of the kids, all the more confident and independent you will feel. If he does not love you, their is always someone else out there who will.
2006-12-16 07:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bill S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know its hard but you just gotta let him go he isnt worth all the stress that your putting yourself under just get any help that is offered the best thing you can do is get a job of your own and not depend on him for anything you could keep writing to him but leave it at that send a picture of his kids with it and tell him that there the ones who are suffering because of his actions i hope you are ok and be strong for yourself sometimes its good to cry to let it out if you feel like your crying everyday then you need to go to a doctors and get some support good luck
2006-12-16 07:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by upyafartpipe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry. My best friend is from the philipines and she used to tell me stories about how it was over there. I'll pray for you, but in the meantime, remember that it will get better. look for a job, maybe you'll find a good paying one. Good luck and god bless.
2006-12-16 07:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i don't know your culture, but a hurt heart hurts in any culture. as hard as it seems you need to pick yourself up and find someone who will care for you and will love you and your kids for the rest of your life. it might seems impossible, but your are stronger than you think. you will have to take it one day at a time. there are plenty of good guys out there looking for a family.
was he an american? how did he come to the states?
2006-12-16 07:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear ellaria,i can understand your situation.your man is not worth loving, so first STOPloving him, instead love yourself and your children first. you are looking for a job and believe me you will definately suceed. have faith in God. do not go to any institution. They will not help you,. Be strong and help yourself.Try to come out of the full housewife circle..Remember,God help those who help themselves.
2006-12-16 07:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sorry for what you and your kids have to go through.im not going to pretend i know how you feel,i dont. i just hope that youll still be fighting for your kids' rights.in the end,theyre the ones who's going to bear the burden of your husbands faults. theyre going to need you as much as youre going to need them to keep as your motivation.it wont rain all the time...youll see the sun shine yet...
2006-12-16 07:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by mojo_divide 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get a job. Any job, as long as it is legal and can support you and your children.
2006-12-16 07:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pray, go to a christian orthodox church, seek help.... good luck !
2006-12-16 07:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by fhellix 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OMG, I'm sorry, but please retype this in lower case. It's impossible for me to read. Thanks, and I hope you feel better.
2006-12-16 07:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by mister.excellent 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋