My bestfriend told me:
I know this will sound bad. Don't cry when I tell you this, okay...You see...I can't be your friend...I don't take sacrifices, I'm not ready to be attached to anybody...I'm selfish...I only think about myself...I'm telling you this early so I won't disappoint you...So...it's better if we could end this friendship now...I hope you're not regretting...You know me from the very start...I easily tire of a person...I'm not a good friend...This is who I am...I can never change it..."
So we ended it...It hurts to lose him...We are distant now...Eversince I got mad at him for leaving me, he thought I was possessive...I can't bear the thought of losing our friendship...We were so happy together...and I can't believe it ended up like this...Sometimes I could see him looking at me at the corner of my eye. I have new friends now, but, I really missed our good ol days...There are some instances that he would stand beside me and my new friends...I dunno why
2006-12-15 22:52:21 · 9 answers · asked by acerbus18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
same as you he is also confused.. asking his self what went wrong and if he did the right thing.
just give him space and time, he will come back.. for sure!
2006-12-16 00:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he/she told you that way you have to get
new friends outthere
bestfriend never leaves us it only happens when u have to move on to other different places but the friendship is still there but as what uve said the way he/ she treated u i might say that ur friend needs a psychologist bec. he/she kinda weird..and maybe he/ she was just too depressed were she can nver tell u that problem and how can u call her a bestfriend if he or she looks not to be best.......dont cry nor dont feel so affected u were born in this world without anybody except for ur family so better adjust and try to divert urself on ur family bec. they are the real best rather than our friends!
2006-12-16 07:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by liezel aileen s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you both sound weird and confused!! Get a grip - friends like that you are better off without.....who needs a fickle mate?! Umm sounds to me like it was a relationship rather than a friendship........ Was it a Fcuk buddies kind of relationship?? Cos if so, they do tend to end up like this....i speak from experience!! Anyway - chin up.....if u have new mates then chill - at least you arent a lonely loser on your own!!
2006-12-16 07:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by *~_**_Jester_**_Girl_**_~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
times change as do people.
Its not unusual to pine for the past but at a stage you have to accept the way things are. From what he has said it sounds like right now there is no way to change things. If he changes over time then things may change.
Sad I know but well you just have to accept you cant wave a wand and have things the way you like them. He doesnt want to be there so he wont be.
Good luck
2006-12-16 06:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by delprofundo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you weren't good together as he dumped you with a load of bullsh*t attached to it. He'll be with somebody else pretty soon and you'll be sat on here crying your heart out for sympathy.
2006-12-16 09:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tabbyfur aka patchy puss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i know it hurts to lose someone so close, but the guy has made it so clear, everything comes to an end my dear,so part with him, for he says he can never change.He may come back sometime.
2006-12-16 07:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I had to laugh.
They say, " A friend in need, is a friend indeed ".
His day will come. You might be a better friend
then I would be. I would forget about him.
2006-12-16 07:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he said he's "not ready to be attached to anyone" he means he dousn't want to be attached to YOU. Get over it and move on.
2006-12-16 10:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by gerrardjulie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his loss...xxx
2006-12-16 07:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Wee Hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋