My period hasn't came on since last month, which means that I am 5 or 6 days late..my breasts are sore and itchy, and I have these creepy cramps that have kept me woke for the past 2 nights. And I know what your thinking "Did she use a condom"...no. "Is she on BC"...no. Not because I wanted to get pregnant but just because I figured in a relationship with someone you "looooooove" you shouldnt have to use condoms. It's a fact that neither one of us is "burning"..we've been tested for everthing...STD's are gross..so yeah...HELP!
2006-12-15 22:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by Subtle Somie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
dont do anything else! go to the doctor!!!!!!!! get off the computer and go! he's got the answers, not the rest of us
2006-12-15 22:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderwall 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might be pregnant, take a pregnancy test, and you will know for sure. But if you are having cramps, you might lose the baby, most people have miscarriages within the first three months, and cramps aren't a good thing to be having when you are pregnant. It is nice in a way that you feel so comfortable with your partner that you don't want to use protection, but getting pregnant and having a baby can quickly make a man not love you as much as they say they do. I am sorry, but it is true, guys loooove every women who agrees to have sex with them if it helps to get them more sex. As far as not using condoms, even people who are clean at first can get an STD later, and not feel free to share it with you. My cousin was in a marriage for 7 years and thought everything was o.k., until she went for her tests at the beginning of her pregnancy and it turned out her husband gave her an STD. He was having an affair on her and he didn't know he had contracted something from his girlfriend. Love should not make you throw common sense out the window, if you aren't ready for kids, use birth control, and I assume you don't want to die of AIDS and live with the knowledge that you got an STD from the guy you love, so use condoms.
2006-12-16 07:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by gypsyiiiis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are indeed "confused," confusedcutie, but there's not much cute about it -- you figured in a relationship you...oh, dear. What on earth was wrong with the pill?
See a doctor, Mommy.
If it's just PMS, and stress or something else besides pregnancy is delaying your period -- please talk to the doctor about various birth control methods. What on earth were you expecting to do for the rest of your life -- just have a baby once every year or two until menopause? Good grief!
Cramps bad enough to keep you awake make me wonder if you're miscarrying, though (not entirely unlikely); this early, it'll likely just seem to be a bad period.
If you're really curious, though -- find a drugstore and buy a pregnancy test. Yes, they work, and no, it's not too early.
2006-12-16 07:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes periods run late, even early. Breast pain and cramps could be part of PMS.
If you are concerned about being pregnant, get a home-pregnancy-test kit (the kind you pee on) as soon as you can. Follow the instructions precisely. Do it up to three days in a row if doubtful (unless you have started your period by then). If positive for pregnancy, go to your doctor for options.
2006-12-16 08:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mary W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seriously think if you love someone you don't have to use a condom because neither one of you have STD's. Well now to me it sounds like your pregnant. Since reading all this I can tell your not that old and def. not ready to be a mother. I suggest that if the two of you really love each other you will use a condom next time. You little life is all about to change all because you had the idea that love means unprotected sex. Did he also tell you that if you don't have sex with him you don't love him? Did you believe him?
2006-12-16 06:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by I_Can_Help 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would just be pateint sometime when your nervous you are late with the period, and thinking about it alot will make you believe you have simtums that are really just in your head. Just be sure you want your child to have the best life possible. Kids are a handful I know I have a 1yr 3yr and 5yr old boy, Sometimes I just wanna get up and walk out. But I guess thats life.
2006-12-16 07:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by ompie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you do something like this, you are taking a chance on getting pregnant. It is irresponsible to have sex without protection if you are not ready emotionally and financially to be a parent. Loving someone does not solve all your problems if you're not ready to be parents.
2006-12-16 07:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by salsera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. tell him u might be pg
2. take a pg test
3. feelings can change. but babies r 4ever.
4. birth control is not an issue of trust.
Its about giving you the option 2 not get pg until u want 2.
2006-12-16 07:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by JBJ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take a test or go to the doctor for a blood test.
If you are not using any kind of contraception then you are asking to get pregnant.
2006-12-16 06:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sheila G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your pregnant.....but just a heads up....you can be madly in love, married, engaged, knowing eachother for 20 years and still use a condom if you dont want to get pregnant. just because you loooooove someone....it doesnt prevent you from getting pregnant if you don't want to be
2006-12-16 07:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Candy Mamii 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋