(A) Staying with them for the kids
(B) Staying with them for religious reasons (Your religion forbids divorce)
(C) Staying in hopes that things will change and you will fall in love again.
(D) Staying because it's cheaper to keep em?
(E) Staying because you don't want to start over with somone new?
(F) All of the above
2006-12-15 22:38:50 · 13 answers · asked by Alicia S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please elaborate, these questions are simply to let me know what goes on in the mind of married people and if it is any thing I can relate to, please RiverFrog explain what I would not understand...
2006-12-15 22:53:29 · update #1
FOR ME ITS REALLY A HARD QUESTION BECAUSE OF MY HUSBAND DID TO ME.HE LEFT US CHEATED ME A LIAR ALL SUCH THINGS.EVENTHOUGH IM STILL INLUV WITH HIM I HAVE TO LET HIM GO BUT HONESTLY RIGHT NOW I MISS HIM BUT IF I REMEMBER ALL WHAT HE DID TO ME THE PAIN STILL REMAIN..SOMETIMES IM CRYING BECAUSE I LOVE HIM STILL.HE ABANDONED US AND NO CHILD SUPPORT GET FROM HIM.ITS ADDED PAIN FOR ME FOR MY KIDS.IM HOPING GOD WILL TAKE HIM BACK AND CHANGE HIM FOR GOOD.TAKE CARE
2006-12-15 23:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Still very much in love. Kids are almost gone now. I know some people stay together for the reasons you give but not us, or at least me. We have been together for a lot of hard times and always come out of it for the better.
2006-12-16 07:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by bildymooner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above. We have been married 32 yrs. We have learned to love each other. Marriage is not a 50/50 relationship. it is a 100/100. each working for the goal of perfection. Each working toward pleasing the other. The areas I am weak my spouse is strong. were my spouse is weak I am strong and we recognize it.
2006-12-16 06:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by white dove 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am still in love with my spouse. I love him more today than I did when I married him 7 and a half years ago. I am staying because he completes me heart and soul (and he says I complete him). We love, trust, respect, and honor each other. Our differences do not cause problems, they compliment each other.
2006-12-16 07:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Shining Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above...Kids are grown , we are not in church , yet we do have faith ......never fell out of love with him ,
We are both fine where money is concerned...
Starting over would not include anyone new , we would be independent at first ...then consider someone else in our life.
So none of the above...all marriages are Not as bad as you may
believe they can be.
2006-12-16 07:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married 8 years now and still completely in love with him.
2006-12-16 06:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
G). In love with spouse and hope she will fall in love with me again.
2006-12-16 06:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by MB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bits of most of it, but there are elements that aren't included. I do feel that no matter what I need to stick it out, and I love him.
2006-12-16 07:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is answer itself. So keep loving him under any circumtance.
2006-12-16 06:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
D and E but I love him,
2006-12-16 06:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by chelci2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋