Though I'm bear websites I keep getting hit on by daddies, I have absolutely no attraction for older guys,Nor do want be bothered by them, How do I keep them form wasting my time? I try being polite but sometimes the same daddie will come back and hit on me and then I usually get mean them. I just want all of them realize that it's an age thing. I prefer guys my own age group instead. How do I go around saying this in a nicer way where I don't feel guilty about it?
2006-12-15 21:14:32 · 6 answers · asked by Slaide2 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why should you be worried about feeling guilty?First off you don't know these people and they don't know you, right?So when you say not interested and they persist then you are well in your right to tell them to take a hike and if you have to say it with harsh words then use them.Some guys young and old just think that when you say no you're playing hard to get.So make that "no" a harsh "no" if the first "no" was not understood.Don't stress over it and just move on to the next profile.That is what finding your mate on-line is all about.Personal selection.So use it!
2006-12-15 21:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you're posting on sites like that be sure to state clearly in your ad an absolute maximum age. Some idiots will still ignore it....but hopefully not many.
If someone outside that age range does reply I wouldn't acknowledge them at all.
2006-12-16 06:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send them my way. I'm a younger guy but I don't mind getting hit on by older men, I think it's incredibly hot.
2006-12-16 05:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is happening online, you say? If it is, you should just describe somewhere that you aren't interested in daddies or older men, that's all. Then, if they still don't pay attention, tell 'em you aren't interested and ignore.
2006-12-16 05:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something you are saying is attracting the wrong sort for you, look at this and make it clear you are not interested.
2006-12-16 05:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bladerunner (Dave) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm a firm believer that you should only have to say 'no' once...after that you don't have to be so polite about it.
2006-12-16 05:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋