We have been trying for years to have another baby and we are seeing a specialist now, my problem is that my friends are falling preg, it seems everyone is, I feel bad because I feel so jealous, and it really gets me down, I have no right to resent my friends happiness, how can I stop it?
2006-12-15 20:58:03 · 4 answers · asked by jam 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I just wanted to tell you to not lose hope Jam---one of my best friends and his wife were trying to get pregnant for nearly 5 years and had lost hope. They both went to specialists and both were fine, and they even went to fertility clinics and still nothing worked.
They had even been planning for life without children because it wasnt working, when out of the blue I got a call a few weeks ago, and theyre pregnant!! After all of their "trying" then giving up hope, a few years later when they least expected it, they were blessed with a healthy pregnancy! Sounds corny and cliche, I know, but try to not lose hope, be patient, and it will happen. I think being jealous of your friends is natural---theyre going to be all into it and talking about it---so naturally its going to bother you at first. I think once you accept that you will get pregnant when its your time and reduce its stress on you (easier said than done, I know), over time you will probably be as happy for your friends as you want to be. God Bless!
2006-12-15 21:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Horatio 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't, unfortunately. It's a natural response when people who seemingly aren't even trying are succeeding at something you want badly. I've had four miscarriages so far, and my sister is pregnant with her first child, due in April, so she's past the danger zone, and I don't want to avoid her, but I just can't help it - seeing her all glowing and with the bulging belly reminds me of what I don't have. If you're seeing a specialist, you've done the right thing, and the best thing you can do for yourself is give yourself permission to feel what you're feeling and acknowledge it. It's natural to be happy for them and sad for yourself at the same time. Best of luck in the baby-making endeavor! :)
2006-12-15 21:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by Julia L. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 01:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. i know it is sad .. my aunt has the same problem .
why don't u consult another doc(gynecologist) and under go some certain tests etc. or maybe there is a problem with ur husband's reproductive system.. .
anyways
wish u good luck!
2006-12-15 21:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by dianarocks 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋