2006-12-15 20:05:41 · 11 answers · asked by Inno 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You have to be confident in what you belief/who you are, because the ratio of people to you is a million to one.
There are too many people to please and you can not please all the people all of the time, but you can please yourself all the time.
So learn/LOVE yourself first. Then all around you will fall into place.
If you live your life totally trying to please everyone else you will be miserable. If you are miserable then all around you will be miserable.
As long as you are not being destructive to yourself and others. Love you First
2006-12-15 20:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ecala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only YOU know yourself better than anyone. Everyone will have their own perception on how they see you, though. Everyone around you will see you different, but only because they know only one part of you, or the exterior of what you display to others. No one can be right or wrong in this, however, because you are your own person, only YOU can make that call on who you are. No one else can make that judgement, because they're not living in your shoes!
2006-12-15 20:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by argamedius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you know yourself better than anyone else does expected God that is, Its just that people see you in a different light than you see yourself and sometime we can be the hardest on ourself. People can only see whats on the outside they don't know whats happening on the inside.
May God bless you and Merry Christmas
2006-12-15 20:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody's 'right,' and that's the whole point. It's all how we see things. We need to learn to respect other people's viewpoints and not try to change them--that's where a lot of the problems in relationships begin. We can only change ourselves. God, am I wise...
2006-12-15 20:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no right or wrong when it comes to seeing yourself and other's seing u in diff ways.
It is bec that is their point of view towards u, if its doesn't fit on the way u see yourself then it is their opinion. Anyway, u cannot please all.c")
2006-12-15 20:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Amani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. Well, how correct can other people be because they don't see all of you only what you allow them to see. And what they see and how they judge that is opinion so I don't know we usually are our own harshest critics so that may no even be accurate. When you find out let me know.
2006-12-15 20:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The majority.
2006-12-15 20:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people who know you well!
2006-12-15 20:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by Nikolas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Who is seeing you more clearly? Them or you?
2006-12-15 20:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ultimate observer is.
2006-12-15 20:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by STY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋