i m 12th passed.i always know i have to make my career n theres no time for love n all that.a guy was interested in me in 12th.he is my classmate n a very good friend 2.he 2 knows that i never say yes to him so he never say it to me.he always flirting with me n even tell this to my friend too.but i simply ignored it n dont believe that.my parents r very reserved.for them study is only thing .i m a tomboyish girl n cant help avoiding these.there r lot of disputes b\w me n my ,mom .she bwants me to be like typical indian girl n i m just opposite to it.so overall i m getting very tensed n cool myself by discussing it to my frnds.its all he 2 knew.but in last months of 12th due to my constant ignoring he started avoiding me.i m very depressed n wants to talk him once but tis not happened.now i drop for engg entrance n move 2jodhpur n he is in delhi in college.i think sure he had forgotten me.but now i cant.i m totally closed in house,cant go for 2nd try.i m totally distracted .
2006-12-15 19:12:30 · 12 answers · asked by shru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My dear..it is very difficult to forget someone when you are too attached to him. Very very difficult. But you are lucky still as you are having time in the hand. Just imagine the scene..here you are dying in his thoughts...spoiling your career,,,burning your parents ambition..but there he is o.k...o.k..with his life..If he too was missing you..still caring..he would have definetely got in touch with you. He doesnot want you. It is very simple and straight. Please listen to your parents. They only think about your good. And being a typical Indian Girl is really too good as it saves you from future embarassment and mental torture that you will go through once you are rejected by somebody. Wake up now only before it is too late. Concentrate on your studies..get in to a good job and prove yourself..make your parents proud. Forget this man. If he belongs to you..destiny will surely bring him back to you. but for now please concentrate on your studies.
2006-12-15 19:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Saheli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing stays as it is ..everything changes ...your feeling for him might change or the whole circumstances would change ...my advice for you is to remove your sunglasses so you would stop seeing your life through this story ...
you are still young and believe me there are many issues to be distracted by ..you havent tried anything yet!..i am not trying to make the whole situation sounds easir but really there are bigger issues to be worried about ..and by the way HE IS NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO CARES ABOUT YOU ,this is unfair to say since you have a family , friends ..etc and it is wrong to be with someone just because he is the available one ..it must be because he is the right one!
2006-12-15 19:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by Silent tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shru,I think you are a bit too young to even contemplate a serious relationship.Treat this as a passing phase.Don't believe all those puppy romances shown in Bollywood movies.They are just that,puppy romances.Focus on your studies,work on your career and love will find you.Take care
2006-12-15 19:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are totally distracted, there is no sense to make an advice on how to forget someone who is the only one cares about you! The situation of you wanting to forget the only one cares about you is beyond imagination.
2006-12-15 19:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAI SHARU i think u have done something wrong becoz that desecion is not totally ur decesion which is wrong u really hurt ur friend we all now moms are always of that kind my mom is also like ur mom and i really respect that u listen ur mama but i think u losse ur true love which is really bad and i think so that u r in love with that person so listen one thing which is my philosphy off life dont love those people whom we love becoz they dont now our love price always love those people who love us becoz they now our love price so choice is urs becoz this is ur life
2006-12-15 23:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by aneema_bragta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its impossible to forget. If so takes years to forget. Very difficult question
2006-12-15 20:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by loretta_lgj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to read (gave me a head ache) But i guess your having a problem with your mom? Sit down and talk with and ask he if she truly cares about how you look. If that was what you were anwsering
2006-12-15 19:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by Beanblabber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will be your best friend. Time will heal all heartaches. Just hang in there.
2006-12-15 19:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never forget her
u will never get a such on
i have missed one
2006-12-15 19:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by ritu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how to forget someone whi is the only one who cares about you??
i've been there before, easily forgot them because i found someone else who cares about me.
2006-12-15 19:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by Hollow ✌ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋