You can list more than one of course, just some good points, I've heard all the bad points already.
2006-12-15 19:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by Melissa 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Well when your baby looks up at you wiht that gorgeous smile, you realize that you are everything for that little being, all your baby's firsts will be memories that you never forget, even the labour as hard as it is when get to hold your child for the first time, you enter a whole new dimension of wonderful things and unconditional LOVE like only a parent knows... All the hardships are meaningless compare to the wonderful times. Life simply changes, perpectives are redifined, priorities become so much clearer because this child depends onyou totally and completely... IT'S JUST THE MOST AMAZING EXPERIENCE OF BECOMING A PARENT.
I could go on and on.
2006-12-15 19:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by stefanyt_charron 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am sure you have heard all of the bad points. Why do women love to scare other women about how difficult labor is???That kind of fear isn't helpfuI! THE BEST THING ABOUT HAVING A BABY IS when the doctor lays the baby in your arms. I have never experienced anything like it! I was madly in love with my daughter from the second I held her. The joy is indescribable. Mind you, I was never a girl that babysat and dreamed of having children all my life, so my overwhelming joy was a surprise to me.
Some other helpful tips-
Please keep in mind when they show you the needle for the epidural only a short portion of that long needle is actually used in the procedure.
My mother always said- If labor was as bad as everyone said it was we would all be only children.
2006-12-16 03:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by paint 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the bad points? Like what? Yeah it's unbelievable when you hold your child for the first time, breast feed them, protect them, give them everything you have. I'm not "anti-child" I have three, but, you must think about later. It is never what it is in the beginning. My oldest is 17, my youngest 12. All that cute stuff fades quickly and what you have is your heart outside of your chest, walking around like it's nothing! To be a parent in the world we live in today....is nothing short of insanity. It is so unlike anything you have ever encountered. It can't be explained from one to another. You have to experience it. I love my children more than my own life, but, it should never be a light decision. I'm sorry you have heard all the "bad" points already. I don't think they were meant to be bad points, but "reality points".
2006-12-16 03:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the moment they are born and you get the satisfaction of immediataly falling in love with the baby you waited 9 mo to see. i am only 20 not ready for a baby but i got her and she changed everything those first few moments were well worth the wait. then when she started smiling at me it was great too even her daddy loves that. and you wont remember the pain so dont even worry about it. it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be i had no epidural just a pain shot my main complaing was my nauseau during labor it wasnt that bad. well worth it in the end
2006-12-16 03:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by sarah b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Recreating a little love. The love of your life that you want near you forever and to protect forever. Feelings that you never thought were possible. Being looked up to and looking down on a beautiful creation.
2006-12-16 03:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by Serious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There really is no down falls of having a baby except the sleepless night as a newborn
2006-12-16 20:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by kierstensmom102705 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bringing someone into this world is wonderful. Looking at that little miracle knowing that you created that child is a great feeling that you will never forget.
2006-12-16 03:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It satisfies your feminine quality and helps to keep the life on Earth rolling.
2006-12-16 04:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for me is a connection between myself and my babies. when i felt my children inside it it so priceless when they were born the most incredible feeling came with the birth. love.
2006-12-16 03:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The forever bond.
2006-12-16 03:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by nurse33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋