masturbation reduction?

Question

i have been addicted to masturbation for a very long time and it has created fatal psychological effects on me.i would like to have some feedback as how to copoe with the psychological impacts of masturbation such as feeling disgraced and insecure

Answer 1

just throw away all your money every time you give in .that's like being married .i think being broke all the time will make you limp and useless to yourself or anyone else.come on get a grip on things.

Answer 2

Let me start by sayin "get your hand off you junk, and listen up". When I hear you describe this as an addiction it's obvious it's not something that's just casual daily masturbation, it's masturbation that has reached a level that is all consuming, and has had a detrimental affect on your life. Without knowing more about your individual case I'm just going to throw out some basic ideas.
Are you the kind of personality type that can cut down, or do you HONESTLY feel you have to stop all together. Usually people who have a particular addiction have to stop totally. Addicts know all to well about telling people they know their boundries. They'll even lie to themselves (and believe it). They'll tell themselves, "I'll just do it this one time". And they may believe it themselves, for awhile. Then they do it again, and nothing bad happens. The next thing you know they're right back into the same destructive behavior, full tilt. The only advice I can give on this particular issue is to try to occupy your mind with a positive alternate outlet, and to contact you doctor about possible medication that may be useful.

Answer 3

Percentage of masturbating boys are quite high and this is due to generic composition of human beings.
Males are aroused sexually much quicker and can release it faster but for females it takes much time to arouse and have orgasm which is a bit difficult through masturbating.
Guilty feeling? Why? You are simply doing a natural thing and without even harming the social rules. So you can do it. Only thing is that, anything overdone is not good because that may distract your mind from your normal work or duties, or can infect or injure your organ due to too much friction. Try to remove the top skin of your organ and use some lubricating fluid and do it that will help you to get more pleasure.
Don't listen to misconception. It will automatically come down with age and when you will have a good female partner, you will forget about masturbation.

For Reduction: Try to involve in social work, Gym, Sports, Computer games, reading books, gardening, Music, painting whatever you feel interesting.

Answer 4

If you have a good enough reason you wont do it. I avoid it because I noticed I get dull after wards. The day and sometimes the next is gone for me because of the serotonin relaxing me. I am not as productive. Also, I have realized that addictions that don't benefit me are wasteful and childish. I know what people say, but don't listen to them. Look at your addiction and see how it effects you. Then if you have a good enough reason, or a need that exceeds the worth of the pleasure you will stop.

Answer 5

Find something in your life for which you are willing to stop. I don't know if you are a spiritual person, but trying to be holy, sanctified and consecrated helps you to view your body as a temple, and then you have the help of God, the universe or whatever higher power you feel comfortable with. Read Romans 12:1 in the bible as it pertains to that. If your addiction is related to Internet porn, there are some websites that may help you, too. Here is one http://www.firesofdarkness.com/

Try to eliminate the CONDITIONS that allow you to masturbate: throw away your vibe... throw away your porn. Put a blocker on your PC... Leave your door open instead of giving yourself privacy, etc.

The throwing all your money away idea above sounds promising, too. Don't listen to people who try to tell you there is nothing wrong with it. Its wrong for some and permissable for others. You and me, we can't do it and NOT feel bad, so its not for you. But I don't have to tell you that. Hope you make it through...I know you can do it.

Peace.

Answer 6

That probably won't answer your question but I believe that masturbating is a healthy behavior .
You're not hurting anyone , just giving yourself pleasure.

I love it ;) I do it every day ! And I have a partner who likes to watch .

What is wrong with masturbation ??

Answer 7

yeah i can't Imagine masturbation being a bad thing

Answer 8

Fatal? Who died? (apart from a couple of billion spermatozoa)

Answer 9

You need to find something else to do. Maybe find some hobbies.

Answer 10

i agree with the first answer