why no baby:(?

Question

ok i've been trying to have a baby for six months. my periods are all messed up. they have been from the time i was 12 the doctors have tryed everything to get them normal the pills the patch the ring everything and it hasnt worked. the doctor said i dont need fertility drugs because im still young im almost 21 and no baby.is there anything i can do i have change my diet and everything is there something wrong with me or will it just take more time. please if anyone has any ideas please help me! pleae

Answer 1

Do you have sex? If yes, do you make sex without protection? If yes are you sure it is not anal or oral sex? If yes again, have you checked the fertility of your partner? If yes again, keep trying, although, if you want my opinion we are too many on this planet.

Answer 2

Hi there i am 21 and ttc for 16 months so i know how you feel. Here are a few suggestions that i personally have tried. I wont give you info that i havent tried myself!

1) try using Agnus Castus, that helps regulate the cycle, i used this after depo i jection and it works a treat. I have some that i can send you.

2) try using ovulation predictor kits, even if your cycle isnt regular if you can pin point ovulation and make love on the right day than you still stand a chance. Make sure you baby dance before ovulation and not after. Cheapest place ebay

3) if the time between ovulation and peroid is less than 12 days use 100mg vitamin b6, this will lengten it which is essential for apregnancy, if 100mg doesnt work up it by 5omg a month. The cheapest place is www.nutrisun.co.uk

4) get your partner checked for Sperm count, if low use asc fertility plus for men. Cheapest place is www.nutrisun.co.uk, it over doubled my DH sperm

5) Tip you hips up after BD

6) try low carb/atkins approach for cycle regulation, it works! and you lose any excess weight.

Hope this helps, i knowe how frustrating it is, but you will get there

Answer 3

The best way to get pregnant is to chart your cycle so you know when you are most fertile. Even if you have irregular cycles, this will still work!

Take and recond your temperature every morning when you wake up. It will rise when you ovulate (Around the middle of your cycle) and will stay higher until your next period. Once released your egg remains vaible for fertilisation for just 12-24 hours.

Keep an eye on your mucus too. It will become stretchy like egg white as you approach ovulation. Sperm can survive for up to 5 days in this most fertile mucus.

I wouldn't waste money buying OPK's as your body can tell you for free when you are ovulating! When trying to conceve it is recommended that you have intercourse every other day during the week before you ovulate and then for a day or two after.

Answer 4

most doctors won't start fertitility testing until after a year of ttc or three or more miscarriages. Charting temps is a good place to start but since your basal temp (waking temp) doesn't go up until after you ovulate with an irregular cycle it'll probably be too late to take advantage of there are other signs your body produces as well that will let you know when you are going to ovulate. The best site i can recommend is www.tcoyf.com it centers around a book titled taking charge of your fertility and the charting software. It also houses a buletin board where members like you can share advice and experiences. i bought the book at a local bookstore and downloaded the software. it is easy to use and do and gives you more info to take with you when you go for your annual as well as reminders to do your monthly self-breast exam (i have a 25 year old friend w/breast cancer)

Answer 5

People who tell you to relax and stop worrying have never been through what you're dealing with. I have and so have many, many other women. Most of them do get pregnant eventually and chances are that your body is working fine and you will get pregnant. But if you are concerned you have a right to see your OB/GYN and talk to him or her about your concerns. Some people get pregnant the first time they try (or when they're not even trying!) and others take a lot longer. Six months is not a big deal, but it seems like forever when you want to have a baby. Talk to your doctor -- you may want to have blood tests to find out if your progesterone level is sufficient. Generally women ovulate on or around day 14 of their menstrual cycle (14 days after the start of your period), but it is NOT the same for everyone...especially if your periods are different month to month. You also may want to try ovulation predictor kits. They're as easy as pregnancy tests and will tell you when you're about to ovulate so you will know the 'best' days to have sex in order to conceive.

If you are worried, go see your doctor! Don't let anyone tell you that when you "relax," you'll get pregnant. If it was that easy, every woman who wants a baby would have one. I don't want to scare you; I just want you to know that only you know your body and only you can decide what is right for you. Get checked out and ask your partner to get checked out too. Then you can proceed with a little knowledge about what may or may not happen.

Best of luck to you!

Answer 6

The more you stress the less likely it is to happen you need to relax and forget about it the best you can. You need to be trying between days 12 and 16 of your cycle day 14 being the most fertile and when you have had sex on these days lie down with your pelvis slightly raised for 10 mins. Also if your not already doing so take folic acid. Hope this helps and good luck it will happen when its the right time :-) x x x

Answer 7

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I had a friend in a similar position to you. She had erratic periods and actually found out she was pregnant at twenty weeks. All of the signs had been missing. After baby number one she fell pregnant again very quickly and is now a very contented mother of two.

It will happen one day so stop stressing because that is not helping at all
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Answer 8

well you just said it yourself...your periods have been messed up. hence its possible that you arent having sex at the time that you are ovulating. use one of the online sites to help you trac your cycles and then see the average length of your cycles and then go from there. they help you predict your ovulation periods as well. if you know the dates of at least your last 3 periods you should be good to go. if not wait about 3 cycles before trying that was it will give it a chance to pinpoint when you are supposed to ovulate. or you can go to the store and buy one of the ovulation kits.

Answer 9

Time for a full checkup. Conception can take a while but with the messy periods (lol) there could be more underlying. Get a referral for a gynaecologist. You can be tested to see if you are ovulating, you may have something else that needs intervention, for example PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) or hormonal problems to name just a couple.

Answer 10

hi there,
I am 21 in april, and have PCOS. I have never used contraception with my partner, and have never been pregnant(together 2 yrs).
look up the condition on the web, and if you have more than one symptom, go to see your GP. they will be able to help you, and if you have been trying to conceive with your partner for more than 18 months, they will be able to refer you to a specialist at your local hospital, where you will have tests done. after which you be put on medication to help produce eggs, to help you conceive.
it works for most women, so dont give up hope! i am currently going through this process and it is nothing to worry about. a lot of women have PCOS (poly cystic ovarian syndrome) and lots go on to have healthy babies!
i hope i have been of help to you.

Answer 11

quit stressing and try not to think about it. I know its hard but stress is not good when you are trying to get pregnant. Also you should be off birthcontrol for a while to make sure it is out of your system