I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.
2006-12-15 18:05:05 · 7 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she sounds like a good girl, be patient and in time she will get more comfortable with you and learn to trust you. it takes time and it should. Take care and God Bless
2006-12-15 18:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a true believer that we are drawn to people who are different than us. We do this for a different reasons, 1. is because we like the excitement of someone different 2. is because we would like to "help" these people become more or less like us. However, the reality is that the thing that attracts us initially distracts us eventually. If you two are this much different it will make things difficult, not necessarily in the beginning, but later on either you or she will find that you just can't reach the other and it will feel as though you are struggling to find common ground with one another. Be VERY GOOD FRIENDS don't even consider anything more at this time, but if you guys do find yourselves in a situation that leads to more remember this is who she is and she likely will not change... neither will you... and this is a good thing. We are who we are and the sooner we accept ourselves and those things that we can and can't live with the sooner we will be able to give ourselves completely to someone else. GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-16 02:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by marathonlife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just give her time. I think that after a will she will open up to you and she wont mined holding hands or giving hugs at least to you. It may seam like it is taking a long time but even if you realy like a person geting out of that anti-touch thing is really hard. I know this because I am the same way and I cant stand it when somebody touches me. I hope that I helped you out because I really can't think of what ealse to tell you.
2006-12-16 02:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by mmoneko16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BRAVO good job keepin it for marriage your like one of the first in a long time ive herd say that bravo... and now 2 your question... just start with freinds and get 2 know eachother really well... and if u start telling eachother the deepest darkest secret u know u have somthing and u have trust and from there just build as u go i hope that helped thats how it was with me and my gf so ggod luck
2006-12-16 02:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here somethings you can try!
1.Go out for a movie
2.Take a walk on the beach.( Soo Romantic)
3. study together.
4.Tell her how you feel.
5.These thing take time it just doesn't happen over night.
I hope this work. If it doesn't then I'm sorry.But then again I never had a Bf.
2006-12-16 02:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by girlangel929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pl do keep your chatting on till you both really start feeling to live in together .
2006-12-16 02:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HER FRIEND AND UNDERSTADING DONT PUSH YOURSELF ON HER
2006-12-16 02:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by va girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋