how long do u think it will take for me 2 get over my parents' divorce?

Answer 1

Unfortunately, there is no set time period, as everybody is different. Whatever you do, don't rush yourself. Even though it was not your relationship, you know, it was between them and not your fault at all, you are still grieving a death of sorts. The grief process takes time. Think about yourself and what you need to be happy right now, and don't worry so much about time, as that will just depress you. And, don't let them drag you in between them if they squabble about things, as that stuff if not your problem either. Good luck!

Answer 2

It is hard to say as it is different according to each individual and the relationships they had with their parents to begin with. What is important to keep in mind is it does not effect their love for you. Sometimes people just grow apart for whatever reasons. It doesn't have to be somebody's fault. Their happiness in life is what they must focus on and you must eventually learn to accept. Is this easy? No, as we tend to put our parents in some weird category like an unrealistic view because we do. They are however; like everyone else.....just human with certain desires and needs and it is not against you it is merely for them. So though it hurts and circumstances will never be the same, accept the change as that is what life is constant change of one form or fashion. I wish you well in your quest for the strenght you need to get through this. Good Luck.

Answer 3

3 months, 6 days, 11 hours and 23 minutes. How old are you? Your obviously not a child if you are using an appropriately placed apostrophe. So get over it, your either an adult or otherwise old enough to realize that it has nothing to do with you.

Answer 4

Depending on your feelings and the situation, you may accept it, but still have strong feelings of loss or resentment. Hopefully things will go well for you and your life will improve as will the lives of both your parents. ideally they would go apart, but improve their relationships with you. In real life however, people tend to place blame and hold grudges. You try to find what you want in your life and learn from their mistakes. Try to forgive and forget.

Answer 5

SWEETHEART,you will never get over it. It is something you must accept and move on. just remember it's not your fault they couldn't make it work...and though you are very sad,it is probably better than living in a house full of arguing all the time..time heals all wounds and while you'll never get over it, you will accept. heck , you'll even accept their future partners.good luck and
God bless. MERRY CHRISTMAS AND TRY TO HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR.

Answer 6

A lot of people never do. You have to forgive them both. Forgiveness is allowing yourself to let go of it, it does not mean that you agree with, or are happy about what happened.

Bitterness is like drinking poison and expecting it to kill someone else.

Answer 7

Some people fall out of love or just cant live together anymore.They still love each other like family tho.You will adjust & move forward.

Answer 8

Depends,
If the devorce was long and stressful or if short and calm. I flong and harsh it'll be harder than being shorter and you're mom and dad getting alone. ( Unlike Mine) I hope this helps

Answer 9

i think that all depends on you, people are different and it may take you a lot longer to get over your divorce than someone else, or you may get over it faster than someone else.

Answer 10

Don't put time frames; just try to live your best life. It wont be easy nor short, but it will be ok at the end. http://www.relationship-affairs.com/Divorce-advice.html