in addition to my last question the problem is not ed it is the urge to want to once we do its great?

Answer 1

he still needs to see a specialist and it's also up to you to help increase his urge

Answer 2

The solution might be foreplay. But it should be foreplay that you both understand might work or might not work. Your husband shouldn't feel pressured to perform just because you initiate foreplay. The both of you should understand that if the efforts you make are productive, great; but if not, then that's ok too. There'll be another time.

You need to emphasize that, and he needs to believe it. You might tell him, to use a humorous example, that if you ever found out that the reason he wasn't able to have sex with you at times was because he had too many girlfriends on the side, and you ended up killing him because of it, you'd end up in jail for the rest of your life without a man to have sex with and would still survive. So not being able to have sex with him at times isn't a show stopper. You can still lead a happy life, even though your going through an adjustment in terms of sex. If you compare doing without it at all in jail, and getting it sometimes at home, it becomes easier to accept that you are probably just going through a stage where you aren't having it every day, or everytime you're in the mood, but the interest is there for both of you, and on some days, you'll get lucky, and on other days you won't. Another thing that might help ensure pressure isn't causing a negative effect on your chances of success is to remind him of when you two were dating. In those days, sometimes conditions were such that you two were able to get a little, and sometimes conditions didn't allow your getting any. So this is nothing new.

The two of you should play the cards you currently hold, enjoy the wins when you experience them, and go on hoping that you'll be dealt good hands more often as time passes.

Answer 3

I dont see a problem at all in that question--- are you saying you have the urge too often? If so, see your specialist-- I still believe hormones are off maybe on both of you.