What if your man had money, but was a dam nightmare to live with, would you stay? I mean money is his sole basis for all decisions, he is not around much and when he is he is a mean nasty (and i do mean MEAN) selfish person. Nothing you do is ever good enough, fast enough, or right. day after day, week after week, month after month. Is money the most important thing or are all men like this?
2006-12-15 16:37:19 · 15 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Money is not worth the misery of being in a dysfunctional relationship...
2006-12-15 16:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nut 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Everyone should be treated with respect. But unless the other person has enough money to buy a separate household for you to be able to escape to, then sometimes a divorce is in order and go for half of the money and get your own space anyways. I hope that the person your talking about has enough self esteem to realize that kind of a relationship isn't healthy. And no all men are not like this, being in love with your spouse and respecting her for what she is and does should be good enough.
2006-12-16 00:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by ken_bailes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse you need more than money !
Would you rather live without LOVE or without this money ?
One more option ......... : since he's never at home you can just cheat on him , right ? ;)
But seriously, if he treats you like sh*t everyday than your life with him ( with or without the money ) must be a pain. If I was you I'd run. Dump the nightmare and find my real soulmate.
Imagine yourself a few decades from now . Would you be fulfilled knowing that you have always had every material thing you wanted BUT got it from your enemy or would you rather look at your past knowing that you were always surrounded by friends , love and understanding ?
2006-12-16 01:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think all of us men are like this, I'm not saying they aren't out there. the way i look at it money really shouldn't reflect on how someone treats you. sure its nice not to have to worry about bills. but you know what? if i had to chose between money and a best friend for life id take my girl.. we would make it thru the tuff times but we would have each other... you cant put a price on happiness... I'm not sure what your guys major malfunction is, but get out of that relationship, you don't need the stress, Ur not his slave and Ur not his maid.. Ur a person and you deserve to be treated like one.. i hope one of these days he comes home and you will have left him... then you can meet someone that treats you with respect, and smiles when they come home to you everyday, and trust me he will come your way... as far as the guy ur with, well lets say its time for a wake up call and pay back is a bit$h, good luck and God bless
2006-12-16 01:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. u could be filthy rich.. bu completely unhappy... happyness is what is most important, money helps howeverit is not all... ur the selfish & greedy one who would stay for the money... the realationship will not last & ur wasting ur time get out now... maybe wait for xmass but then leave... find another man who makes u happy no matter his financial situtional... a man who makes u feel special, happy & who u are in love with is the guy u should be with, not some jerk. good luck
2006-12-16 01:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by *Spam* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
money cant buy you love or happiness this is a proven fact.so may be you should divorce him and get alimony and find a man that not rich but has a normal life that work from 9-5 that you know that love you.but dont tell him you have money because if you do he mite take a vantage of you.life just inst fare is it.
2006-12-16 02:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men aren't like that. I wouldn't stay, but everyone's situation is different. I have a friend going through a bad situation who is very physically ill and is trying to leave and I'm trying to be supportive, but she's having a hard time with it still. If you're in a bad situation I urge you to seek help and leave ASAP.
2006-12-16 01:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are mean, but they do worry about money because they want to take care of their families. Some are super critical and demanding.
2006-12-16 00:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man has money--------but is a damn nightmare to live with, I could care less about his money. Even if he was filthy rich, it wouldn't matter. Who would want to be with someone like that?
2006-12-16 00:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no... if my girl had money and could support us both without any problem but she wasnt fun to be around i would end the relationship.
and money is not the "basis" of all decisions, unless you are talking about business... when it comes to matters of the heart mind and soul are what used to weigh all decisions
2006-12-16 00:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋