After that possessive-thing incident
and the time when I got mad at him when he left me
After a few days...He said we should be distant...He confessed that he's not a good friend and by that, he wanted to end our friendship while it's still early so I won't be disappointed...He said he didn't leave me and he could never do that...So we ended it..And it tore me apart...
Okay, so, there were 5 of us now in a group (a few months ago, there were only the two of us) He seems to pay more attention to our other 3 friends and he rarely talks to me
When we are left alone...Silence is always surrounding us. I always feel nervous when he's around. What I don't understand is that...Sometimes he stands beside us. Sometimes I could see him at the corner of my eye looking at me. During our choir rehearsal...I sat far from him...I could see him behind me kinda feeling down.When it's time to go to the auditorium, he walked a bit close to me then he smiled and walked behind me.
2006-12-15 16:34:42 · 3 answers · asked by acerbus18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
After the recital, he greeted me Merry Christmas with a high five
2006-12-15 16:36:59 · update #1
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-12-15 17:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Likes you!!! Plain and simple, he paid more attention to your other friends to hide his feelings until he knew how you felt. His reaction during your rehersal show that he is sad without you! Try to go on a date, it wouldn't hurt, but dont tell any of your other friends just in case things are kinda messy!
2006-12-15 16:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jon C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know the 'old' song by REO Speedwagon 'Can't fight this feeling'? it should tell you all you need to know
2006-12-15 16:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋